I’m not sure if anyone else does this or if it’s just me. I’m a bit of an oddball, I know and I’m quite happy about it so I guess this post is just me thinking out loud.
Aren’t you all lucky!!! *chuckle* Anywho ….
I’ve not done this before, well not exactly like this although similar things have happened but …. I had an idea about a rule that we might incorporate. A rule that could only be followed when we are alone but a rule none the less.
I didn’t talk to the Bear about it (or hadn’t when I started practicing it, I have now) because He wasn’t home yet but I wanted to try it on for size. I wanted to see how it worked, logistically, and how it felt, physically and mentally, to have to follow through.
I also wanted to surprise Him with it as to get a real, honest response. You know, a gut reaction sort of thing. Give Him something to now think on and decide what if anything He would like to do about it. Give Him ideas.
(Although I really should know better! The Bear is always saying ‘Bunny talks too much!’ *raspberries* )
This isn’t a brand new idea, it’s something we have read about and something He did use as a rule for one specific outing but …. it would be new in this circumstance.
I wasn’t sure so I wanted to test it out. It’s nothing that breaks any rules or is in violation of the spirit of anything we have agreed upon so I thought, why not???
If I found it to be more detrimental than mindful I would soon figure that out. If He found it not to His liking we would soon figure that out. If it was good for me and indifferent for Him than He might decide on it for my benefit and vice versa.
The jury is currently out …..
To me this is just one more method of stoking the fire, active submission if you will. Thoughts?