No Orgasm please.

I know, I know, some of you out there are thinking what?!?! Why would I post something like that, what in the world could I be thinking? Well the truth is that sometimes I really don't want one ... at least not right then! ;D Part of my submission, part of what makes me feel good…

Climbing the Wall

All fixed ... well as all fixed as things can be so quickly when it comes to your mind and your insecurities I suppose. Sir was not unaware of the problem immediately, He just didn't know what exactly it was ... and I was in the middle of my work day so a deep heart…

Today’s ‘Shower Talk’ – Habits

Shower talk is what I decided to call things that occur to me when I'm performing other tasks, like taking a shower. Some are my random thoughts and some are not so random. So here goes ... When I wanted to break the smoking habit I looked at triggers that made me want to smoke…

His From the Beginning

In the 21 years that we have been together I think I have been to the grocery store less than a handful of times by myself, and I have gone pretty much every week. Sir always drives .... In 21 years I have slept by myself twice, a couple of years a ago Sir told…

Confidence and Age = Sexy

I've always been very strange in this thought I know .... probably because of my history but I have never once thought that I would like to be young again, I have never once wished for the good old days .... Now I know when you are little you always wish to be bigger so…

Because He knows …

Rules, I haven't got many of them really. I have some but outside of kinky ones the rest are really few and far between. I think the reason I don't have many rules is because my Sir already knows that I respect Him and will obey, no question, no complaint. The idea of rules I…

One of these days …

One of these days I'm going to slip up and call my husband Sir, or refer to Him as Sir to a vanilla friend or in a vanilla situation ... and it's going to be a shock to everyone's system!! LOL I'm thinking about the fact that a friend of mine has mentioned that she…