Freedom in His chains.

strong:   able to withstand great force or pressure. powerful:  having great power or strength. For as strong and powerful as I have always been I was never complete. Now that I am His, I am free. free:  not physically restrained, obstructed, or fixed; unimpeded. Strong, powerful and free. Even in the darkest and weightiest of days I …

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Irony of submission

There are many times in life that I laugh wryly at what goes on around me but this time it's just a good old-fashioned, knowing chuckle! I just wrote something yesterday that put the irony of my relationship front and center! The misconception of submission, at least mine anyway. I started down this road of …

Disconnected

I've been in an odd mood lately, well maybe not odd for me, I've been feeling kind of disconnected from the things around me. Mostly just walking around in the world but living in my head. If I used to be more active on your blog and now seem to have disappeared I just want …

Re-Blog! Ay Caliente – The Spice of Subbies

Did you know peppers were cultivated in Central America well before 4,000 BC? Thanks to the Spanish explorers, the mighty pepper has now spread all across the globe, and hundreds of mutations of the original now exist. China is even the world’s leader in producing green bell peppers now. This brutal plant is an offshoot […] …

Family, friends and power exchanges.

There are many things in my life that The Bear has taken control of that are not at all sexy or kinky. There are many things that happen in the everyday that I wouldn't give a second thought to. These things don't change just because we are out with family and friends. They are becoming …

Last night

Last night I was being cheeky and hopping about the bedroom as the Bear undressed me so I could change into some 'comfy clothes' after work. Last night I ended up trying to scoot across the bed to get away. Last night a big Bear paw came down and trapped the bunny on the bed …

Effective corrections and consequences

Yeah, still nothing sexy or a spanking story to tell, but certainly a very effective way to create and maintain change. Some time ago I approached the Bear and told Him that I was having difficulty breaking away from my reading and writing to get certain things done around here. They are things that I …

What this site is, and is not.

This is a site about life and getting on with it. This is a site about how I submit to my husband and how sometimes things get complicated and busy but our relationship stays in tack. This is a site about how we navigate the TPE in our lives and some of the hiccups and …

Life has been very hectic and frustrating lately.

It might not seem like it here on this blog but my life has been extremely frustrating and hectic these past few months (or years). The last couple of weeks in particular have been h3ll on wheels BUT the Bear and I have been even more in tune and connected, not less. This post might …

Dominant or submissive?

I used to do things because I felt a responsibility to take care of Sir and make His life better. Now I do things because I feel a responsibility to please Him and make His life better. The things, actions and words are the same or similar .... it's only in my head that the …