Sometimes things happen that really speak to the power of BDSM in our relationship. I'm off for a few hours in the middle of my day today and so i'm trying to get caught up on some gardening. It had been raining much too much around here to be able to get anything done. Plants … Continue reading It’s for times like these ….
Dancing With a Stranger - Sam Smith & Normani (No, i'm not dancing with anyone else, in case there is any confusion. Just like the song and this bit fits! *smiles*) Happy Monday! ❤ Hmm, hmm I don't wanna be alone tonight It's pretty clear that I'm not over you I'm still thinking 'bout the … Continue reading Missing Him on Monday …
Not sure why this is on my mind now, maybe because it's been long enough and i'm now daydreaming while i wait! *giggle* I remember having Him on top of me, His hand around my neck and one with fingers down my throat. Moving me and molding me to whatever He wanted ... i was … Continue reading A couple of weeks ago ….
We've been looking at some new toys to add to our collection and dusting off some old ones. It has been an adventure .... re-learning how and what works, learning that some things have changed and according to Sir ..... "I'm glad to see your tolerances haven't changed"! I think three days in and my … Continue reading We ordered them!! *grin*
My @ss is red, my shoulders are relaxed ... floating a bit while i get some breakfast, finally. Bear comes down from the bedroom of the youngest and tells me he's already up. He had gone up to wake him and give W his meds. The floaty feeling now tempered with a bit of responsibility … Continue reading Saturday start
I've been sending Him naughty pictures again here and there, when i get a chance. I'm still working everyday so there really isn't much by way of opportunity but every so often before or after a shower i get just a few extra minutes, and then ..... We decided last week that the kink and … Continue reading Naughty- and TGIF ❤
I'm lucky that i can afford to work part time and i'm lucky that the Bear has no problem with that idea, He actually encourages it! Lately however one of my part time commitments has become full time and for a couple of months now i haven't had that break that i enjoy and frankly, … Continue reading Is it Friday yet …. ?
I've been reading and searching this out for a while now and there is a very consistent undercurrent to any of the healthy relationships i have read, including my own. I know there are many other parts to any relationship but this is just one of the small parts with a big effect. You may … Continue reading Why (consensual) ‘sex slave’? – My female perspective.
One of the things i have to work on, get back into, is vocalizing my pleasure when we are playing or just touching at all. I know this is one thing that the Bear really enjoys, listening to how He's making me feel and react! I've said before i'm normally very much in my head, … Continue reading Vocalizing – Relearning how to be His toy.