Dancing With a Stranger - Sam Smith & Normani (No, i'm not dancing with anyone else, in case there is any confusion. Just like the song and this bit fits! *smiles*) Happy Monday! ❤ Hmm, hmm I don't wanna be alone tonight It's pretty clear that I'm not over you I'm still thinking 'bout the … Continue reading Missing Him on Monday …
Not sure why this is on my mind now, maybe because it's been long enough and i'm now daydreaming while i wait! *giggle* I remember having Him on top of me, His hand around my neck and one with fingers down my throat. Moving me and molding me to whatever He wanted ... i was … Continue reading A couple of weeks ago ….
We've been looking at some new toys to add to our collection and dusting off some old ones. It has been an adventure .... re-learning how and what works, learning that some things have changed and according to Sir ..... "I'm glad to see your tolerances haven't changed"! I think three days in and my … Continue reading We ordered them!! *grin*
I've been reading and searching this out for a while now and there is a very consistent undercurrent to any of the healthy relationships i have read, including my own. I know there are many other parts to any relationship but this is just one of the small parts with a big effect. You may … Continue reading Why (consensual) ‘sex slave’? – My female perspective.
One of the things i have to work on, get back into, is vocalizing my pleasure when we are playing or just touching at all. I know this is one thing that the Bear really enjoys, listening to how He's making me feel and react! I've said before i'm normally very much in my head, … Continue reading Vocalizing – Relearning how to be His toy.
Spring has things growing and looking fresh. Seems spring has brought the Bear out of hibernation as well!! Like many of us, the person who wanted to start a D/s connection in our marriage was me. Bear was interested and has been learning along the way but it has mostly felt like i was the … Continue reading Fresh and new
I've been looking at this all wrong. Trying so hard to be submissive not pushy ... and i have started looking around. I have been looking at sites that document 'submissives' and 'slaves' as they find their way through the process. Guess what i found? Being me and doing/starting stuff is not un-submissive ..... it's … Continue reading Well now ….
Every time i write about this it really makes me laugh. Why? Well because when we were first searching out a network to learn and communicate with we ran into one such site that was less than helpful. It was okay if you were interested in sex, and sex, and pics and more sex .... … Continue reading Menopause and D/s, again!
Chains, I love chains Something about them, The way they feel on my skin, The weight of moving and carrying them along ... The sound. Chains do something to my psyche. Rope is nice, but chains .... Chains are what i like best, Bear started it, it's His fault, His preference for chains quickly became … Continue reading Surreptitious ….. Saturday
Wandering about in the WWW i get to read and experience all sorts of lifestyles. Some are close to mine and some are very far off but they are all interesting and sometimes even make me think. I read of some that are very involved in the M/s or D/s lifestyle, they try to make … Continue reading I don’t want to give up my vanilla half.