What this site is, and is not.

This is a site about life and getting on with it. This is a site about how I submit to my husband and how sometimes things get complicated and busy but our relationship stays in tack. This is a site about how we navigate the TPE in our lives and some of the hiccups and…

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He taught me

The Bear taught me to trust people. Well, sort of trust, and only some people. My world in general would be much darker and lonelier if the Bear hadn't shown me how to enjoy the company of others. I got an email from my friend today, she wanted to know when we could hang out.…

Tempering the perfectionism neurosis

A bit of a ramble, I think .... let's see where we end up, shall we? *wink* Part of my routine/rules is to moisturize twice per day, minimum. Why a rule? (rules to us are things that will be enforced/disciplined for if missed or disregarded, trouble.) When we were playing lots and lots and when…

‘Friend number’ and Poly

Okay, I'm back, with hopefully a real post this time. Did you all miss me?? *giggle* I was busy climbing the walls! *wink* I heard this 'report' some time back and I knew it was going to make an appearance here because, well, that's the only real way to get things out of my head.…

Kinky??

I'm listening to some old-time rock'n roll, getting things done and trying not to concentrate on the pain. This last month has seen me takes some pretty significant steps back but hey, that's the way life goes isn't it!?! Music has always been therapy for me, from mental and emotional outlets to simply getting me…

Baby, look how far we’ve come.

Outside the Wall (Waters) 1:42 All alone, or in two's, The ones who really love you Walk up and down outside the wall. Some hand in hand And some gathered together in bands. The bleeding hearts and artists Make their stand. And when they've given you their all Some stagger and fall, after all it's…

Dominant, not domme.

Yesterday I had an issue to take care of, an issue that has been ongoing for years now. One I thought had finally and quietly been taken care of but I was wrong and it required a firm hand. Dominant bunny it is than! *wink* My backyard looks more like a national part than it…

TMI?

I have a question, related to something I read not too long ago. I thinkĀ it might have been referring to me, maybe not. Either way it did get me thinking. Do you all enjoy when I share funny little bits and pieces of things that have happened here? Things that are not really deep or…

Adult Games – my answers!

Since I asked the questions I thought I should provide you with *my* answers. NOT because they are gospel, NOT because they are 'right', just because you might be interested! *wink* How important is sex to your BDSM life? It's not. When I started experimenting with BDSM I quickly found that for me there were…

D/s in vanilla land – the swirl ice cream cone continues.

I've never had a romantic D/s relationship before but I have certainly had plenty of experience with dominant and submissive ones. I can spot one from a mile away .... You see, a dominant and submissive relationship is part of all of our lives, all of the time, some people just simply don't realize it.…