Since I asked the questions I thought I should provide you with *my* answers. NOT because they are gospel, NOT because they are 'right', just because you might be interested! *wink* How important is sex to your BDSM life? It's not. When I started experimenting with BDSM I quickly found that for me there were … Continue reading Adult Games – my answers!
I've never had a romantic D/s relationship before but I have certainly had plenty of experience with dominant and submissive ones. I can spot one from a mile away .... You see, a dominant and submissive relationship is part of all of our lives, all of the time, some people just simply don't realize it. … Continue reading D/s in vanilla land – the swirl ice cream cone continues.
I received a certain, angry email last night from the same person who has been making my brain 'spin out' for the last couple of weeks. Well, that certainly proved any hypothesis I might have had, not that I'm happy about that fact but I'm not surprised. This note is for them, because I have … Continue reading “These are not the droids you’re looking for ….”
Have you found that you make exceptions to things that you would otherwise find unacceptable in order to maintain your D/s connection? Especially when it comes to couples with kids in the house. For example, I am completely against having a television in the bedroom. Or in the living room, or dining room or kitchen … Continue reading Exceptions
Do you remember when I said I was feeling stifled? That I had been for some time? Well, I took a bit of time and did a bit of thinking and decided that I needed to be true to myself and true to the reason for being 'here' in the first place. After that revaluation … Continue reading Irony
How important is sex to your BDSM life? Does BDSM automatically involve sex and orgasms? Are sex and BDSM always together? Do your scenes always end in sex and/or orgasm? Is BDSM simply another way of having sex?
The stronger I need to be OUT THERE ... The more completely I need to be controlled IN HERE .... It's all about balance you see, It's about calming the storm in my mind. It's about caging the beast that lies within. There is nothing else that makes it all stop spinning, even for just … Continue reading Balance
I sent out a resume today, things might be changing but I'm not ready to write on that yet. I did have a funny to share ..... I asked the Bear if I should list BDSM under hobbies. He said I should probably wait to bring that up for the interview! Bears!! *smirk*
Too much swimming in my head lately to be able to put into words. I have no ambition to do so. I'll leave you with this and wish you all a good day, a good week, a good life. Patience and acceptance are often preached but rarely practiced. Peace and happiness come from within. ~n … Continue reading Jason Mraz – Have It All
I was answering a comment and as usual came up with more detailed information that might be of interest or value for everyone to read. So, I have decided to tweak it and place it here. As to my recent attempts of describing my ‘sub type’, it’s more an exercise to explain rather than discover. … Continue reading Blog Comment, turned post!