Not less D/s, not on a break …

I'm going to start by saying I'm a bit stressed so if you are sensitive or take things personally, please stop reading ... I have just gone through the most stressful and heartbreaking couple of months in my content adult life. The last couple of weeks in particular have been some of the hardest I…

Rest In Peace Vóvó

Gramma passed away today, peacefully and surrounded by family and love. I'm not sure if there is any 'good' way but under the circumstances I guess this would be all we could ask for. She was a tough lady with a heart of gold, she didn't mince words but she wasn't cruel either. Always wanted…

Strength

Not sure if anyone is watching or any one cares .... (besides Sir) but I just wanted to let you all know that my Grandma, who gave me my strength and wisdom and character and value is dying ..... So I will be busy, and emotional and maybe even a bit rude .... or short.…

Revitalized

  Just one of the benefits of a good spanking! 😀 I'm not sure why exactly it works (I assume the endorphins released have a lot to do with it) but it always seems to recharge my batteries when it is done correctly. When your mind is with mine and your body moves with purpose…

Happy Saturday!! Off to a wonderful start!

I had a wonderful night last night, talking to Sir and explaining to Him what I was hoping would happen and how I would like to try and play/experiment with some new and different toys! This morning He 'surprised' me with some play and fun before we even got out of bed. It was awesome!!…

Toys, toys, toys ….

If I'm completely honest I really could take them or leave them. I don't have a great relationship with 'toys' in the bedroom. I like impact instruments and bondage and the more the merrier but when it comes to other toys I guess maybe I/We just haven't taken enough time to figure out how to…

Happy Friday Eve Sir!

Getting excited for the weekend again 😀 you did a good job of helping me shake the grumpies ... I like it much better this way! Is it bad that I want it all? I want the deep meaningful connection, and I want to be everything for you and make sure all your needs are…

Collared

It's been a year now that I have worn my symbolic 'collar'. They are bracelets actually/ cuffs. It was kind of a fun kinky idea as well as a meaningful one. It was something we added long after we had already realized we were D/s, we were 24/7, we were not only playing kinky games…

Things that make you Sir …

I've been thinking about the truly important things that make you my dominant, my Sir. The things that mean so much more than kink or sex or formal protocols ... Being a dominant is a lot of hard work, at least being my dominant is. I don't follow just anyone ... hell I don't follow…