The secret lies with Oprah padawon ….

One of the first relationship truths I learned as an adult and as a mindful act was from Oprah. Pretty much, ohhh 20 years ago or so .... Gotta love Oprah! *chuckle*  Although I don't remember the exact wording and the context was about children and parenting I believe, the message still rang true for…

He is a gentleman ….

... but sometimes He's not! And that's when He's really hot! 😉 Some of the real changes in our relationship from before we started D/s and now are the ways that He acts and reacts to me sexually in nonsexual situations. Some of the things He says and does would be completely inappropriate for a…

His Evilness knows no bounds!!

Sometimes the lengths He'll go to, to satisfy His sadistic side amaze me! He says to me in no uncertain terms that when I'm curled up in His lap and yawn and stretch and make cute noises I remind Him of a kitten lying in a big Bear rug!! As I settle back in for…

Sometimes *t happens, such is life!

The last few days I have been fighting a cold, a nasty one that attacks my sinus and allergies as well. It makes it hard to breathe and eventually my air ways and throat swell. I take some medication to help clear that up but it dries my airways so much that I spend a…

Just a short something, something ….

A bunch of jumbled thoughts and not much time or ambition to write on here now a days. Not sure what this post is or how it will come out but like I said, just a bunch of jumble! Sir and I haven't really the time to play and prep for more serious and intense…

Completely Appalled!

Search terms! "we use spanking as discipline sometimes -child -mom -videos -she -her -daughter -incest" I have no idea how *this* brought you here but you are absolutely in the wrong place and God help you if I find you first! Outside of wordpress I have no online presence, I know some of you like…

Living and Loving Honestly

Some fantasies have thorns .... Whatever kinky play you decide to get into just remember - your emotions couldn't care less about what you pretend you're doing or what new name you've decided to give it. At the end of the day, the action speaks for itself ... and it speaks volumes to you and…

Being Healthy – Body and Mind

Originally posted November 14 2015 but since I'm busy I thought it was worth a re-post! A lovely weekend as always my Wonderful Sir! ❤  When we enter into this type of D/s  or BDSM relationship we hear the ideas of Safe, Sane and Consensual at every opportunity but what about mind and body health…