I don't think i'll surprise anyone who has been doing this for a while when i say that things change and flow sometimes in a completely different direction than you thought when you add D/s to an existing, 'vanilla' marriage. No matter the reason you started, it almost always moves on it's on accord and … Continue reading Maturing into submission
Doesn't feel like twenty-two ... Doesn't even feel like two .... They say time flies when you're having fun, well it certainly seems to be flying by here!! When i was young i didn't dream of 'happily ever after', i didn't have opportunity to dream of much. I guess you could say this is better … Continue reading Twenty-Two
I suppose that depends on what you mean by 'service'! *wink* In this case i'm referring to house work, yard work, making dinner, laundry etc. I have seen this referred to as 'submission' or as part of the rules of the dynamic. Many moons ago when i did chat online with a few friends i … Continue reading Submission through ‘service’?
I haven't written here much again, haven't had much i wanted to put to paper i guess. He's been trying to get the kinky vibe going again, not in bed but outside the bedroom. I hadn't been trying very hard, i just really couldn't get a handle on my mind. I am now .... slowly … Continue reading Well, let me see now …
I'm feeling a bit 'off' today. Feeling like i'm not really here!?!? Does that make sense to anyone.... I'm walking around in almost a daze, just doing things, whatever needs doing but not really focused. I wish i could say it's just that my mind is elsewhere but my mind is always elsewhere! Trying to … Continue reading Weird Space
Originally written a few years ago but it seems to be the theme for a current meme .... *wink* I wanted to touch on a subject that doesn't really make itself known in my world very often, but is so important to remember and put into the right light! Sometime over our wonderful weekend together … Continue reading Colours of responsibility
I've said this many times but despite the risk of repeating myself i'm going to say it again. Things for me physically have been 'interesting' lately. Getting around has been difficult but despite that i have managed to continue with my workouts. By the end of last week however i was starting to run out … Continue reading More than kink … still.
Do not take out a flogger and start to swat at a Bear .... even if He says He's 'stuck' because He's gotten Himself into a compromising position on the bed! A Bear can move very quickly despite His size and He will magically become unstuck!! A variety of cane stripes may be the result … Continue reading Note to self
Writing things down always helps me to get the words right, get them ready to speak out loud. Writing it down first always allows the Bear a heads up in order to know where i'm coming from should i get a bit off track in person. It works well for us ... We've sat and … Continue reading Performing CPR
Thank you to everyone concerned and offering suggestions. I thought that instead of responding to each of you individually, since you were all saying a similar thing and my hands are aching, i'd do it here all at once. You are each important and i'm not trying to make you feel like you are not, … Continue reading Instead of repeating myself ….