Never happened, such is life!

I was really hoping for just the smallest amount of play the other night. Just a bit of flogger action would be great but just as many a great plan ..... it never happened. The kids are each doing their own thing and each in need of assistance from time to time. The oldest is…

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Just a quick explanation …

The couple of comments from the last post made me think to explain this just a bit more here. I have a need for some play, mostly flogging at this time but it's not based on a sexual desire, and it's not because I'm in need of attention from the Bear. We spend our evenings,…

Dear Bear …

I could really use some assistance today Sir! My upper back and shoulders could use your skill in flogging! *wink* PHOTO Or, you know, whatever your preference, of course Sir ... Perhaps a bit of brushing up on your skills before we get something new??? What do you think EMS!?!? Please ..... *grin* Love You…

Merging of two worlds

When D/s and love merge is when you truly have it all! I have been honest since the beginning on this blog, I would never and have never played 'the scene'. I have no interest in that and should I ever find myself single (not that that is anything I'm thinking will happen, but just…

it’s a compliment …

I've spent my life being talked about, it's true. I rarely notice until someone else brings it to my attention, I really do choose to be oblivious most times, that wasn't just a post idea, it's my truth. I surround myself with people and ideas that bring me up, make me well, make me whole.…

Oblivious

Sometimes I think the best thing to be is oblivious. ob·liv·i·ous adjective not aware of or not concerned about what is happening around one. I've said before that I really don't follow many submissive sites and I don't feel like I'm missing anything either. There are a few I follow, very few, in order to…

Today’s theme …

Ever feel like you are right where you want to be? *grin*Yeah, it's like that ... to those preaching 'stuff and nonsense' ....   https://youtu.be/mqFLXayD6e8 Just hanging out and chillin' to some music while I work. Gearing up for the weekend, cuz you know, it's Thursday!! Look out Bear, you are going to have your…

I’m a …..

I don't have a short answer for that. I am a thinker, does that count? I've been looking around and reading some new blogs and some old ones, again, with a certain vigor due to circumstances I have been made privy to. Everyone seems to want to have a name, a label, a direction ....…