In desperate need …..

.... of inspiration! Things have been crazy busy around here and with visits and planning and yard work etc. the last thing on the mind has been kink! Or sex for that matter ..... Wanna see a bored bunny?!? Come on over ..... 😛 Mission kink-possible! Your mission Sir, should you choose to accept it:…

My ‘submission’ was and is a dominant act.

Confusing? It shouldn't be. In my view the main responsibility of a dominant is to identify and provide for the needs of those whom they have made themselves responsible. While in the dominant role at home it became obvious that my husband needed to be in charge in order to feel fulfilled in His role.…

Wow folks, just wow!

When I first started this site it was for my husband/Sir to read and understand what was on my mind. I honestly never thought I would have much traffic ...... As I look around now I realize that these words of mine have been read in 94 different countries! I am speechless and humbled by…

The secret lies with Oprah padawon ….

One of the first relationship truths I learned as an adult and as a mindful act was from Oprah. Pretty much, ohhh 20 years ago or so .... Gotta love Oprah! *chuckle*  Although I don't remember the exact wording and the context was about children and parenting I believe, the message still rang true for…

He is a gentleman ….

... but sometimes He's not! And that's when He's really hot! 😉 Some of the real changes in our relationship from before we started D/s and now are the ways that He acts and reacts to me sexually in nonsexual situations. Some of the things He says and does would be completely inappropriate for a…

His Evilness knows no bounds!!

Sometimes the lengths He'll go to, to satisfy His sadistic side amaze me! He says to me in no uncertain terms that when I'm curled up in His lap and yawn and stretch and make cute noises I remind Him of a kitten lying in a big Bear rug!! As I settle back in for…

Sometimes *t happens, such is life!

The last few days I have been fighting a cold, a nasty one that attacks my sinus and allergies as well. It makes it hard to breathe and eventually my air ways and throat swell. I take some medication to help clear that up but it dries my airways so much that I spend a…