Why D/s? (sexually speaking)

I don't normally write about the sexual aspect of my relationship and I still have no intention of going into any personal details but I was thinking about how would I explain to a friend what and why I would choose to be sexually submissive to my husband, for the sake of the sex alone.…

What if they find out? (you might not like this)

Friends, colleagues, family members .... I personally have never really understood the big deal behind it but I guess it's once again all in your perspective. Why should I have to be fearful or concerned that someone might find out I have a great deal of respect for the man I married? I can tell…

Many many moons ago …

One of the questions I got from a post a while back was if I always knew/or was I always kinky? You guys tell me .... When we were first together and had no extra responsibilities or worries I set up a night out at the beach with a handful of friends for Sir's birthday.…

If W/we were …

"Mmmmm" he says through hooded eyes ... "If we were alone you would be walking around naked little girl!" "You would be tired of me after a day or two Sir ..." I say smirking back. "Oh no little girl, all day, everyday ...." That will do for now! 😉 Happy Weekend all .....

What is submission to me?

I wanted to re-blog this Sir so you know I haven’t completely lost my focus but ……. right now I could use some serious BDSM time. Every time we get started on anything lately there has been an interruption.

I need to be completely and totally broken down and taken out of my head …. I want to float away in sweet oblivion with nothing but the feel of heat and pain ….. mindless, used and taken.

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That’s all! 😀 LOL Happy Thursday ❤

Sir's nijntje

What is submission to a strong independent person who knows that they can handle whatever life throws at them … that they will pick up, carry on and always succeed, no matter what. What is the point of being a submissive when you know full well that you can do it alone?

Well there in lies the kicker …. alone! Being strong and being powerful and being in control of everything also made me very much alone on my journey of life. Sure I was married, and happily so. We were soul mates, always together and never rude or cruel to each other. We always had each others best interest at heart and we always put each other first …so what changed?

I think the biggest changes are that I have learned to depend on you and I know that you care enough about me to notice where I am…

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About Monday – to ‘prove’ a point sort to speak …

Don't worry Sir, no details! 😛 I often say things like relationships are a two-way street, a dance, one fuels the other etc. etc. and since I just had a chance to basically make that same statement again the recipient of said comment got me thinking about what are my active actions of submission. My…

The truth of why D/s makes me happy

Things are busy again of course so posts on this site are not at the forefront of my mind. This is from a year ago and happens to fit in just nicely now!

There is plenty going on around us again and still, no matter what, you are there! ❤

Sir's nijntje

The sex is hot that is for sure, the control you have is calming, the BDSM is stress relief but the best part of this for me is that I can count on you!

At the core of what makes me happy with all the kink and ritual aside is the fact that I can count on you to be there for me no matter what!

When I am sad you will be there – when I am happy you will be there – when I am angry you will be there – when I am frustrated or confused you will be there – no matter what you will be there.

When you are angry you will be there – when you are frustrated you will be there – when you are tired or just not in the mood you will still be there – no matter what you will…

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Happy Monday Sir!! :D

I started to write you a post on here Sir but it was looking something like this: In any case, thank you for a most wonderful weekend! 😉 Love You Always Sir ❤