The Apple Situation

I think perhaps The Bear sometimes thinks I'm totally bonkers! Just one more everyday occurrence, might give you all some insight as to how my mind works in regards to The Bear. I went into the fridge last evening looking for a snack, a green apple. I looked in the crisper but there was only…

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Cat and mouse

Lately I've been trying very hard to get over my hangup of doing everything perfectly and politely and trying to add a bit of mischief to my day. Nothing actually bad or wrong, just more playful naughtiness. Well this has been a bit of a hit and miss. I've managed to come out of my…

More of the every day

I had a brief conversation with The Bear yesterday, we were looking through the papers after dinner and chatting. Nothing major really and I happened to see some job adds. Nothing that would be for me exactly but it did bring a thought to mind. Things at home have changed some what and work has…

Just another Thursday

Yesterday I texted the Bear, I simply said 'I miss you'. Yesterday He came home and gave me a spanking. Then He got in the shower, dressed and we went out for dinner with the boys as planned. If you find this perplexing you are on the wrong site! *giggle* Yesterday we were 'we' and…

What’s in a name ….

I've been asked a few times over the years what does nijntje mean. I was just asked again and so I thought I'd write it out and give a little more explanation as to why we went this way. nijntje - *9 - cha* is a Dutch term commonly used as an endearment, literally translated…

Then and now

Things I have learned that make this 'thing' real for us, for me. The things that are not sexy or kinky or about titles and labels. The things that are not about what He says and does but what I do and think instead. We have always had a good marriage, a good connection and…

Irony?

We've been talking a bit about a trip we'd like to take in the spring, a trip just for the Bear and I but we wanted to start feeling it out with the boys just to be sure it will be well accepted. We have our reasons as to why it's necessary so we are…

I do

Thanks to AC for giving me a rush of words .... yet another inspiration: I fuel His protective nature I fuel His desire I fuel His need for me I fuel His dominance I fuel His fire I do And everything became so much clearer once I figured it out! It is not about waiting…