I don't know how long it will last or how far we will get before interruptions. I'm not even sure if it will play out at all, but right now I'm in the right mind to just be .... The first chance I get, once things are calm and all is quiet, I'm going to … Continue reading Today’s Mood
I have debated what to do with this site for some time now, I keep it because there are some things that are specific to TPE that I need to write out but I'm not always sure if I fit. Most of what I have seen out there deals with problems following rules, or issues … Continue reading It’s days like these that make me wonder.
I'm getting good at asking for what I want! Odd concept I know, right? *giggle* He enjoys the encouragement and knowledge that I need Him and I enjoy having my needs filled and the calm that comes from that. It really is that simple. With everything else in life so hectic and complicated there is … Continue reading Getting good! 😉
When we started down this road I'm quite certain that the Bear found my personal strength intimidating, and i dare say after a while even a bit off-putting. After giving Him the control and encouraging Him to take it and use it many things changed. One of the most satisfying for me is the fact … Continue reading Leading, with/and respect.
Last night in an effort to get just the smallest amount of relief the Bear set up the heaters in the garage, had them running until I was done work and just as soon as possible He tried to sneak me out to the garage once more for just a short 5 minute session! The … Continue reading Tried again, …..
For some time now I have been writing on two sites. One for TPE ideas and issues and one for the rest of life. I think you know which this one is. My view was that not everyone who wants to read about my TPE with the Bear really cares about what the rest of … Continue reading All the facts:
I run in one of two modes, either in 'control' or in 'slave space'. I've always known that anything in between was not 'comfortable' but I didn't realize how physically detrimental it was to me. Maybe I just didn't want to admit it .... We have some work to do, some things to figure out. … Continue reading All or nothing.
The physics of a D/s relationship also applies .... For every (submissive) action there is an equal and opposite (dominant) reaction ... the two forces must coexist in order for the energy to be maintained. In addition, someone must start the action or no reaction will be forthcoming to balance the equation ..... In a … Continue reading Newton’s Third Law
Every time I turn around there is something else going on that needs time and attention. Our alone time is nonexistent and any sort of impact play has been off the table for longer than I can even remember. Even short spanking sessions that could sometimes be sneaked in here and there have been gone … Continue reading Another day …..
A feminist and submissive ..... yup, this says it pretty well. My life, my choice, that's the point to feminism anyway, isn't it? Not some of the radical craziness that you hear about that's making my choice some how anti-feminist? right .... Like the author says, the fact that I choose makes it empowering, period. … Continue reading Re-blog: Confessions of an Empowered Submissive — Shaunanagins