Why D/s? (sexually speaking)

I don't normally write about the sexual aspect of my relationship and I still have no intention of going into any personal details but I was thinking about how would I explain to a friend what and why I would choose to be sexually submissive to my husband, for the sake of the sex alone.…

About Monday – to ‘prove’ a point sort to speak …

Don't worry Sir, no details! 😛 I often say things like relationships are a two-way street, a dance, one fuels the other etc. etc. and since I just had a chance to basically make that same statement again the recipient of said comment got me thinking about what are my active actions of submission. My…

On the same page

Not sure exactly what this post is going to be today, a bit of rambling I think. I guess we'll see where I end up Sir!! ❤ I've always been the primary care giver for the kids, they are 17 and 15 (next week) and I've been home now for 15-ish years. I work from…

Most Dominant

I like to take the time to enjoy life, the little things, the simple things. I think that in order to be truly happy I need to be able to be happy in the moment, any moment no matter how big or how small. Carpe Diem indeed! I don't focus on or complain about the…

Aftercare – not just for scening

One of the things I found in the beginning especially was that aftercare was not just necessary after a scene or intense play session.  Sometimes, most times? after care has much more to do with one's mental and emotional state than it does the physical. What I found interesting was that the things that played…

Dominant acts

I'm sitting here this morning having a pretty hard time moving around or just simply walking. My mind is going to a few of those sites I talked about earlier, about how some of those ideas are just simply not for us. How happy exactly do you suppose I would be if my dominant decided…

Oh for goodness sakes!!!!

Sometimes I really don't like this ... oh well, Sir is sick and it's finally 5 o'clock on Friday just starting a long weekend no less! I am ready and needy and more than eager .... and He has gone to bed. I'm not upset that He is sick, He has no control over that…