The real difference, to me.

I got a text today, well the Bear got a text because I don't have a cell phone. What and where is going on with my oldest in regards to evening plans, that are up in the air. I heard the sound, he has his own so we know it's not 'junk mail' and just…

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The reality, well MY reality … *wink*

I'm feeling a lot better today even though the rain and clouds are still threatening .... did a bunch of yard work yesterday, it's really looking great and I'm hoping we have very little to do the rest of the season. All the work last year and an early start this year are looking like…

Peri menopause, dynamic, sex drive!

I left a comment for someone that has spurred on this post. I've written before about how going into peri menopause put my sex drive through the roof! Running around like a horny teenager all the time ... a one track mind for sure! I had this same conversation with a few vanilla friends so…

Submission builds strength

I read this blog post a little bit ago and I really wanted to use it as a jumping point for my own revelation years ago.  I can’t place the next memory on my submissive timeline, aside from it being before the next phase of my life. It is one of the most important lessons…

Leading, with/and respect.

When we started down this road I'm quite certain that the Bear found my personal strength intimidating, and i dare say after a while even a bit off-putting. After giving Him the control and encouraging Him to take it and use it many things changed. One of the most satisfying for me is the fact…

Chastity – no thank you.

I've become aware of some posts on chastity recently that have me thinking. I know it is not something for me, I know it would not enhance my submission it would actually reverse that process. I'm pretty hard-core so it did take an awful long time to happen, emphasis on awful, but it did happen…