Sometimes things happen that really speak to the power of BDSM in our relationship. I'm off for a few hours in the middle of my day today and so i'm trying to get caught up on some gardening. It had been raining much too much around here to be able to get anything done. Plants … Continue reading It’s for times like these ….
We've been looking at some new toys to add to our collection and dusting off some old ones. It has been an adventure .... re-learning how and what works, learning that some things have changed and according to Sir ..... "I'm glad to see your tolerances haven't changed"! I think three days in and my … Continue reading We ordered them!! *grin*
When life gets busy sometimes all you have is a few minutes in time before you need to be back at doing whatever it is life throws your way. A few moments in time is sometimes all you need .... This morning, before the kids wake and chores need doing we sat and had our … Continue reading Stolen moments
There is a really stark difference between the way i learn and communicate and the way Bear does. I have learned this over the last 7 years mainly, it's certainly one of the things we got out of starting D/s. Although we've always had a great relationship it never occurred to me before that i … Continue reading Communication, learning styles and getting physical!
Wandering about in the WWW i get to read and experience all sorts of lifestyles. Some are close to mine and some are very far off but they are all interesting and sometimes even make me think. I read of some that are very involved in the M/s or D/s lifestyle, they try to make … Continue reading I don’t want to give up my vanilla half.
I've been thinking on this one for a while now but just hadn't had the time to write it. Now that i do, i find myself distracted ..... so i hope i can make some sense!! *giggle* One thing i remember very distinctly in the beginning of our journey was conversations with other submissives trying … Continue reading Communication
I find myself in an interesting position, one that i've been in before. Since we both have the mental energy to focus a bit more on the fun and more obvious rituals for our dynamic we have added to it. Sir wanted some suggestions on how to enhance two of the things that we do … Continue reading More and more ..
I'm finding myself in full 'bunny mode' more and more these days. This is the mindset i want to take into our conversations, this is the mindset in which i enjoy being His the most, usually. 'Play' is different, i don't think bunny 'plays' .... This is the state of mind that finds me the … Continue reading ‘Bunny mode’
Submission is also mine to take care of and continue to work on and build. My submission should not be dependent on His dominance alone .... ***** A personal post, sort of a ramble 😛 LoL When i'm in work mode, taking care of business mode i'm very much in the warrior mode that i … Continue reading Submission is mine to give, not His to ‘demand’
This is based on my life, my experience and my needs. This is not a step by step manual for anyone else's life and not a 'right or wrong' attempt at explaining D/s either! Take it with a grain of salt, use what you want, discard what doesn't fit for you ... There have been … Continue reading Submissive training