It’s for times like these ….

Sometimes things happen that really speak to the power of BDSM in our relationship. I'm off for a few hours in the middle of my day today and so i'm trying to get caught up on some gardening. It had been raining much too much around here to be able to get anything done. Plants … Continue reading It’s for times like these ….

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We ordered them!! *grin*

We've been looking at some new toys to add to our collection and dusting off some old ones. It has been an adventure .... re-learning how and what works, learning that some things have changed and according to Sir ..... "I'm glad to see your tolerances haven't changed"! I think three days in and my … Continue reading We ordered them!! *grin*

Communication, learning styles and getting physical!

There is a really stark difference between the way i learn and communicate and the way Bear does. I have learned this over the last 7 years mainly, it's certainly one of the things we got out of starting D/s. Although we've always had a great relationship it never occurred to me before that i … Continue reading Communication, learning styles and getting physical!

Submission is mine to give, not His to ‘demand’

Submission is also mine to take care of and continue to work on and build. My submission should not be dependent on His dominance alone .... ***** A personal post, sort of a ramble 😛 LoL When i'm in work mode, taking care of business mode i'm very much in the warrior mode that i … Continue reading Submission is mine to give, not His to ‘demand’