I find myself in an interesting position, one that i've been in before. Since we both have the mental energy to focus a bit more on the fun and more obvious rituals for our dynamic we have added to it. Sir wanted some suggestions on how to enhance two of the things that we do … Continue reading More and more ..
I'm finding myself in full 'bunny mode' more and more these days. This is the mindset i want to take into our conversations, this is the mindset in which i enjoy being His the most, usually. 'Play' is different, i don't think bunny 'plays' .... This is the state of mind that finds me the … Continue reading ‘Bunny mode’
Submission is also mine to take care of and continue to work on and build. My submission should not be dependent on His dominance alone .... ***** A personal post, sort of a ramble 😛 LoL When i'm in work mode, taking care of business mode i'm very much in the warrior mode that i … Continue reading Submission is mine to give, not His to ‘demand’
This is based on my life, my experience and my needs. This is not a step by step manual for anyone else's life and not a 'right or wrong' attempt at explaining D/s either! Take it with a grain of salt, use what you want, discard what doesn't fit for you ... There have been … Continue reading Submissive training
I'm having a hard time trying to figure out what to write here on this site lately. I like to write and it both calms me at times and offers a distraction from the other things in life when I just want a break. To me writing here is not 'work', its relaxing. The problem … Continue reading What to write?
The stronger I need to be OUT THERE ... The more completely I need to be controlled IN HERE .... It's all about balance you see, It's about calming the storm in my mind. It's about caging the beast that lies within. There is nothing else that makes it all stop spinning, even for just … Continue reading Balance
I wrote about the new day collar that we have been experimenting with, making sure neither of the boys are triggered by it. My style has always been 'individual' *wink* so being something outside of the norm is not at all unusual here, that helps! No weird looks, no comments and no odd behaviour means … Continue reading What do lil’ rabbits need?
A lot of my posts are from my point of view of course. That is what I know best after all!! *giggle* I'm going to try something different, I'm going to try to write something from His perspective .... let's hope He approves! It's important here to remember that when we got into this adventure … Continue reading Sir’s needs
The body is a funny thing. The mind is a powerful thing. Timing is everything!! *chuckle* Last night all three of those things were way off for me. To make things worse, Sir was not communicating .... We are finally adding a few moments of play into our lives again and it's like learning all … Continue reading Talk to me …
Well I've had it for a little while now and have started to wear it from time to time to break it in, the leather is always a bit stiff at first and softens up with time and body heat so it gets more and more comfortable all the time. This isn't to replace my … Continue reading I’ve got a new day collar! 🙂