Then and now

Things I have learned that make this 'thing' real for us, for me. The things that are not sexy or kinky or about titles and labels. The things that are not about what He says and does but what I do and think instead. We have always had a good marriage, a good connection and…

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Owning your emotions

It really drives me crazy when I see and read people trying to hide their thoughts and emotions from their partners or when submissives are told that they are not allowed to have emotions. Real life has real issues and needs real conversations and communication to succeed. I wrote this 2 years ago as well…

Effective communication ….

Originally written November 1, 2015. I had a conversation that brought it to mind, instead of rewriting the same issue, I'll just re-blog! 😉  One of the major components of our D/s relationship is honest and effective communicating of wants and needs on both sides. It would be nice to say there were no issues that…

Submission 101 – Manners

Read something today that touched on this subject - since I wrote this at the beginning of my blogging experience and many were not yet here I thought it would be worth a re-blog!  Sounds simple enough, everyone knows you should have good manners. I can't imagine any dominant that would be okay with having…

Drawing Parallels

Brand new day and back to work after a bit more than a week off, brand new hours and a new group to work with .... so of course in the midst of all my 'flying by the seat of my pants' I draw parallels to D/s relationships! *giggle* It links back in a way…

Why D/s? (sexually speaking)

I don't normally write about the sexual aspect of my relationship and I still have no intention of going into any personal details but I was thinking about how would I explain to a friend what and why I would choose to be sexually submissive to my husband, for the sake of the sex alone.…

About Monday – to ‘prove’ a point sort to speak …

Don't worry Sir, no details! 😛 I often say things like relationships are a two-way street, a dance, one fuels the other etc. etc. and since I just had a chance to basically make that same statement again the recipient of said comment got me thinking about what are my active actions of submission. My…

On the same page

Not sure exactly what this post is going to be today, a bit of rambling I think. I guess we'll see where I end up Sir!! ❤ I've always been the primary care giver for the kids, they are 17 and 15 (next week) and I've been home now for 15-ish years. I work from…

Most Dominant

I like to take the time to enjoy life, the little things, the simple things. I think that in order to be truly happy I need to be able to be happy in the moment, any moment no matter how big or how small. Carpe Diem indeed! I don't focus on or complain about the…