Under your care

This is what it feels like when you listen to my words, help me address my concerns and assure me you will stand up for me should it become necessary! It's not that you had ever disregarded me before .... it just feels so much more powerful now. Like I can finally let my guard…

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How menopause affects your Dynamic – Mental/Emotional

So while we are on the topic of labels and such and how to navigate road blocks in your dynamic .... how does menopause affect the way your dynamic is worked out. And if you are deep enough into the serving and 'servicing' Sir when ever and how ever He wants, how does this wonderful…

I don’t understand part time D/s …

I don't understand the idea of 'your D/s' being on again off again, or only when outside forces are not pulling you in other directions.  To me it is a way of thinking and responding to my husband and in life really. I don't change my ideas or attitude every time I have a chore…

Sometimes it’s just …. life.

Sometimes I find it very strange that I am writing a blog about my D/s relationship, because at the end of the day it is just my relationship, not D/s or vanilla ... just us. When things are running smoothly and not much changes from one day to another it's easy to forget that you…

Fairy Tales are real … with you Sir!

I'd say I was still walking around in a sub high but I don't honestly think it ever goes away. This is just me, this is you and this is Us! You always listen to my wants and you take care of all my needs. I only hope I can thank you enough .... Love…

Teaching my core values to my kids ..

I'm not about to tell my kids about D/s or power exchanges or any kinky sex play, that's for sure, but as you may have guessed, I do believe in being a good person all around. Obviously that plays into relationships of all sorts including your spouse. My children are very well rounded individuals who…