This is something that had been in the back of my mind for a while but for some reason never came to be. Until now ... Since just after Christmas I have been having a really hard time physically, well it started before that really. This was something that had been going on more or … Continue reading One of my hidden needs …
It's interesting to me that the site itself brought me to crossroads as life too has done the same. Some things I knew already and some kind of snuck up on me when I started having more brain power and time to dedicate to our dynamic. It has been toned down considerably in regards to … Continue reading 1001 – The journey continues …
I find myself looking at decisions right now in regards to this site and what to do with it. I'm sure you've noticed I've had a couple of questions for you over the last short while. It's all to try to get a feel for how this site is seen and what, if anything it … Continue reading At the crossroads
Do y' all feel this site is lacking because I don't write erotica or post racy pictures? This is not a right or wrong answer, it's just a question to see if I'm providing what I think I am. Looking for opinions, none are wrong and all are welcome. 🙂 If you'd like to drop … Continue reading Question?
Not sure why this is on my mind but it is. Well maybe I do know I just am not ready to share, yet. I don't feel any struggle in my submission, I don't find it hard to follow His lead and I don't find it hard to fall into. It's not really a thing … Continue reading A favourite old shirt
Things are pretty tense around here as usual, new school semester brings new challenges. The weather likes to act up at just the right moment and me ..... I'm left carrying so much tension in my neck and shoulders that every move is torture, and not the kind I like!! 😛 Its traveled most of … Continue reading Dreamin’ ….
Sometimes when I talk to or read people in the 'lifestyle' I run into the comments about 'vanilla' and why it is they can't understand the choices we make, why they can't seem to see how healthy and natural it is, etc. I can understand it, I don't blame them for being worried and uncertain … Continue reading The ‘why’, vanilla friends are not always wrong.
Our weekend was full of things to do that we didn't want to do, but were important and needed. For various reasons there was frustration, stress, worry and just your basic physical pain and exhaustion. Finally we were able to steal some moments for just us. But the energy seemed off to me, I couldn't … Continue reading Out of practice?
It is often said that submission is 'hard', but I wonder what specifically is it that you find hard? Minds out of the gutters now ...... *chuckle* My first challenge I think was becoming used to 'waiting'. As a 'go getter' type personality who is used to having things done ASAP it was a bit … Continue reading What do you find difficult?