Being in the ‘lifestyle’ means you lose your common sense??

I'm strictly thinking out loud here and reacting to things I have read. I am sure (or at least I certainly hope) that there are many people out there finding their way around and still using the thing a top their necks .... but there also seems to be a group that is not. So … Continue reading Being in the ‘lifestyle’ means you lose your common sense??

Why just one?

I'm an artist, a music lover, a business owner ... I love math and science, I love to read. I am a mother, a counselor, a friend ... I can be your best ally and I can be your biggest curse. I am relentless, I am stubborn and I am fearless. I am cautious and … Continue reading Why just one?

Just because He says He’s a DOM doesn’t mean He is …

(This is absolutely not about my life or my husband, but sometimes I read things that really make me wonder.) "Dominants" don't make excuses. I'm not implying that anyone is or should be perfect, that is unrealistic. What I am saying is that my idea of a dominant does not make excuses for their bad … Continue reading Just because He says He’s a DOM doesn’t mean He is …