Happy Monday Sir! :D

Thank you so much for such a wonderful, fun filled weekend Sir! It was simply amazing and I certainly have my 'sub' going on. With everything else you do for me and all the other things you take care of in my life you never seem to be too busy to listen and indulge (assuming…

Being Honest, and not topping ….

I think it's not really right to post all these great and wonderful things and times but then not talk about how to deal with the hiccups along the way. It's not like we have always played in kinky circles before and this should be first on our minds all the time .... it would…

My Dominant/submissive life

I don't know if my life matches up with anyone else's and I don't know if everyone who has these labels would agree we are. Guess what? I really am not bothered by any of that .... The only person I need to please is MY dominant and the only people who need to think…

Submission 101 – Self confidence

I think that one aspect that makes my submission easy for me is that I have high levels of self confidence. Now this is not to be mistaken for cockiness or thinking yourself better then others .... I mean true self confidence, being happy and comfortable in your own skin. I have always tried to…

Submission 101 – Mindset

I wanted to write about my mindset as a submissive but I think that the mindset of wife/mother/good person is probably the reality for me. There are a couple things that I have worked on and brought back as your submissive if I am truly honest with myself. There were a few things that over…

When the warrior doesn’t get to play.

This is partially a post in reaction to something I read and partially the other half of a post I wrote a while back about why BDSM works for me. As a very dominant personality I can assure you that I never feel the need or anticipation of kneeling to anyone, for any reason outside…

Perspective

Laying on the couch this afternoon trying to give my back and hips a break. I don't want to take any meds so I am resting with every 5 minute opportunity I get. Since my brain never goes into quiet mode I'm left thinking back on how I ended up here in the first place…

The secret life of Bear and bunny …

I thought I'd write a bit about what our dynamic looks like for anyone who might be following and might not have the whole picture. Likely, no one has the whole picture .... I really don't write much about our daily interactions because I guess I just take them as a given. It has been…

Sir …

Feeling a bit like this ... (not because of Sir) Need to talk to Sir .... figure out my next steps. That is the point of a D/s relationship isn't it? If I do it on my own, figure it out on my own, then I'm not giving Him the chance to lead .... right?…

Happy Monday Sir

Today's shower talk .... Sometimes I wonder why it is people go looking for things and then can't figure out why they found them, why they are stuck with them, why they can't be free of them. I've always believed that you get just what you expect, and that you see in others exactly what…