I’m a submissive to Sir, of that I am certain. I have absolutely no need or want to control Him or be ‘one up’ on Him what so ever. I have no need to over see His actions or tell Him what He should be doing … it’s not my place and frankly I have no interest in doing that with Sir. I had no interest in doing that before D/s either, not with my man thank you.
I’ve never been one to ‘mother’ Him either, or any adult for that matter. I figured that if I wanted children I would have them, and I did, two …. been there, done that, bought the t-shirt thank you! LOL If you are an adult that needs mothering , well I’m the wrong person to approach. That’s probably one of my biggest pet peeves, immaturity in a mature situation. (I’m not trying to insult anyone here, it’s just not something I want to handle.)
I am very content and at peace following Sir and His ways where ever that might lead and how ever He wishes to lead. That being said, I have absolutely no problem being in charge of my life, or at work, or with a stranger … or whatever the situation dictates.
I don’t get stressed or run down or over whelmed. I don’t get to feeling uncomfortable or that I’m losing myself … or that something is missing. I like the energy, I like being in charge and I have no problem taking command of the ship when needed. It doesn’t scare me or exhaust me, it thrills me!
So yes I am His submissive, but I’m not ‘A’ submissive …. I would not be this way with anyone else. I’d likely chew them up, and spit them out ….! lol
So I have been learning a lot from reading and chatting but I certainly can’t say I have found a place that I fit! Besides here with Sir of course.
Not sure why I felt I needed to say that, but if you are following my site it might be important information for you to understand my point of view on things. I know it’s not for everyone but now you know a bit more of why … 😀
If you like to see what the rest of my day is like you can check me out on nijntje’s Babadook