Note to self

Do not take out a flogger and start to swat at a Bear .... even if He says He's 'stuck' because He's gotten Himself into a compromising position on the bed! A Bear can move very quickly despite His size and He will magically become unstuck!! A variety of cane stripes may be the result …

Performing CPR

Writing things down always helps me to get the words right, get them ready to speak out loud. Writing it down first always allows the Bear a heads up in order to know where i'm coming from should i get a bit off track in person. It works well for us ... We've sat and …

Instead of repeating myself ….

Thank you to everyone concerned and offering suggestions. I thought that instead of responding to each of you individually, since you were all saying a similar thing and my hands are aching, i'd do it here all at once. You are each important and i'm not trying to make you feel like you are not, …

Flat-lined

That's pretty much all i have to say. My kinky life has flat-lined and my kinky needs are not being met. The only time we had for impact play of any sort was during the Walking Dead series. The boys would go to Gramma's house for the hour and we would finally be alone. The …

‘There must be peace and understanding sometime’ ….

Happy St. Patrick's Day all! I'm not in the mood to talk D/s, or make witty jokes about green leprechauns. I've been listening to a very controversial but intelligent fellow lately and he seems convinced that the key to the worlds problems lies in us. Integrity and responsibility .....  yup, that's it. Fix ourselves and …

I did something …

I did something today that i didn't think i'd ever do again. I joined a 'club', not sure if it's a wise move or not. A D/s club ... [ *update: a chat club, not a face to face one] I've done this before, a couple of times and both times it didn't work out. …

Interesting developments

Sorry i've been away folks, i know you're used to me writing more often but now that i've hit that 1 000 mark i think i'm going to concentrate elsewhere AND write here too but not so regimented. I was writing almost daily but i think i need a break from that schedule. I hope …

Can you share?

I really like this, not something 'like' this, I know there are many but, I would like something 'same' or very similar. I like the thickness and strength of the binding. I like the secure feeling of the whole thing. So .... do any of you have a resource you can link back??? Thank you! …

‘Kinky’ side effects!

I wanted to post this here, even if it is slightly embarrassing, in hopes of maybe helping someone else. I wrote a bit ago about my need for a rule involving working out. I needed to get some motivation back and for me, having it as a rule is really all the push i need …

I’m back!! and still rambling.

Did you miss me??? *wink* PC has been on the fritz, got it fixed and now i'm back! Aren't you all the lucky ones .... *chuckle* I came back to a 'funny'. At least i think it's funny, i find the irony hilarious. Once i logged in i noticed that a search for 'oppressed house …