I finally found a 'fifty' titled book i want to read ... LoL Hint, hint Bear ... Mother's Day is coming! *wink*
Wandering about in the WWW i get to read and experience all sorts of lifestyles. Some are close to mine and some are very far off but they are all interesting and sometimes even make me think. I read of some that are very involved in the M/s or D/s lifestyle, they try to make … Continue reading I don’t want to give up my vanilla half.
This is our version of things, a way for us to differentiate mindsets, i think that's the way to describe it. The terms have meaning to us, they may not fit yours and that's okay. Once upon a time when we first started playing around with a more 'official' version of our kink and dynamic … Continue reading A request
Yesterday didn't go according to plan. Last night didn't go according to plan, but that's just the way of life, isn't it? It was disappointing and by the time we (Bear and i) had time to sit together all the kinky ideas and feelings were set aside. It was late, we were tired and i … Continue reading Keeping my eye on the prize.
Some one, anyone - ask me a question. There are almost 450 of you followers and views in almost 200 countries, someone must have something they can think to ask!?!? I need a distraction .... anyone??
I just read someone who seems to think that you really do not get to choose to be dominant or submissive. They seem to be under the impression that you only ever 'are' or are not. I'm afraid i disagree .... I can accept that for some people, perhaps most people, that might be true … Continue reading No choice? I think everything in life is a choice, for me.
Today is a good day. Today the sun is shining and although i started rough i am moving around pretty well this morning. I guess i'm feeling kind of chatty too! *giggle* The Bear is back at work today but i have one more day, making the best of it while i'm catching up on … Continue reading A new development and an old rule remembered!
The weekend has been quite an experience. We didn't go anywhere and the weather didn't disappoint, it truly was awful!! There is flooding everywhere we look, the rain was relentless. Never fails to make me feel sore and achy but that is what it is .... The Bear has been making less excuses and taking … Continue reading Well, that was fun! Brat-titude …
I don't think i'll surprise anyone who has been doing this for a while when i say that things change and flow sometimes in a completely different direction than you thought when you add D/s to an existing, 'vanilla' marriage. No matter the reason you started, it almost always moves on it's on accord and … Continue reading Maturing into submission
Doesn't feel like twenty-two ... Doesn't even feel like two .... They say time flies when you're having fun, well it certainly seems to be flying by here!! When i was young i didn't dream of 'happily ever after', i didn't have opportunity to dream of much. I guess you could say this is better … Continue reading Twenty-Two