Naughty- and TGIF <3

I've been sending Him naughty pictures again here and there, when i get a chance. I'm still working everyday so there really isn't much by way of opportunity but every so often before or after a shower i get just a few extra minutes, and then ..... We decided last week that the kink and …

Is it Friday yet …. ?

I'm lucky that i can afford to work part time and i'm lucky that the Bear has no problem with that idea, He actually encourages it! Lately however one of my part time commitments has become full time and for a couple of months now i haven't had that break that i enjoy and frankly, …

Why (consensual) ‘sex slave’? – My female perspective.

I've been reading and searching this out for a while now and there is a very consistent undercurrent to any of the healthy relationships i have read, including my own. I know there are many other parts to any relationship but this is just one of the small parts with a big effect. You may …

Vocalizing – Relearning how to be His toy.

One of the things i have to work on, get back into, is vocalizing my pleasure when we are playing or just touching at all. I know this is one thing that the Bear really enjoys, listening to how He's making me feel and react! I've said before i'm normally very much in my head, …

Fresh and new

Spring has things growing and looking fresh. Seems spring has brought the Bear out of hibernation as well!! Like many of us, the person who wanted to start a D/s connection in our marriage was me. Bear was interested and has been learning along the way but it has mostly felt like i was the …

Stolen moments

When life gets busy sometimes all you have is a few minutes in time before you need to be back at doing whatever it is life throws your way. A few moments in time is sometimes all you need .... This morning, before the kids wake and chores need doing we sat and had our …

A good day to be me …

The rain has finally let up, for now. The gardens need tending and flowers need buying and planting. The morning started off a bit slow, i'm still fighting this cold and night time coughing fits are making it hard to sleep. We had breakfast and then kind of vegged on the couch a bit in …

Well now ….

I've been looking at this all wrong. Trying so hard to be submissive not pushy ... and i have started looking around. I have been looking at sites that document 'submissives' and 'slaves' as they find their way through the process. Guess what i found? Being me and doing/starting stuff is not un-submissive ..... it's …

Communication, learning styles and getting physical!

There is a really stark difference between the way i learn and communicate and the way Bear does. I have learned this over the last 7 years mainly, it's certainly one of the things we got out of starting D/s. Although we've always had a great relationship it never occurred to me before that i …

Today – personal post

I've been frustrated lately, bordering on angry. Maybe more than bordering. I haven't been feeling very well and now a virus to boot! We've got plans for tonight, friend's anniversary party and i don't feel much like going. I have wanted less and less to do with socializing lately. I feel like it's more of …