Not every D/s relationship actually deals with real discipline. Not every submissive wants or needs to be told to go to bed on time and eat three meals a day. The rules you have between a Dom and sub (or any variety of top and bottom) have to be accepted on both sides. A submissive […] … Continue reading Re-Blog: A submissive’s rules and their purpose — Musings of a Chaotic Mind
Akismet has protected your site from 6,666 spam comments already. All these 6's, maybe you should buy a lottery card, Sir!?!? *wink* Just having some fun, hope you are all having a great day! *smiles* There isn't much I can't turn into a 'good time'! 😛
I keep saying that this relationship is so much more than sex and kink and there is no doubt in my mind many of you agree. Some times the sex and kink need to take a back seat to life and responsibility. As much as we miss having a kinky romp day in and day … Continue reading The little things, some … wicked!
Things around here are pretty crazy lately. Very busy and full of ups and downs to make your head spin, so what does Sir decide to do? Up the ante! *chuckle* He has added, or mainly re-instituted things that we have used in the past but have been pushed aside due to time and energy … Continue reading Upping the ante
We had a wonderful Friday night, a very long day but a good one! We got to go to a concert and watched my favourite band of all time. Well, a cover of them but a really good one celebrating 30 years!! I got to wear my showy collar out!!! *grin* That was the first … Continue reading Note to ‘self’, or in this case, Sir! *wink*
I wrote a bit of how this journey of BDSM started for me, in my mind and what I needed for my body. If you haven't, please catch up with part 1 here . I was going to leave it as stand alone but i decided i needed to add some to really make it understood … Continue reading Time and change – continued
What I wanted, What I want, Where I might end up. What I wanted, When I started this journey into BDSM and M/s or D/s or what have you, my way of thinking and looking at masochism and servitude through pain was much different than it is now. I have read some where in kitten … Continue reading Time and change
Are you afraid of what you will find? Are you excited by the prospect and adventure? I know what my outlook is .... *smirk* ****** I've been writing sightly differently lately to give you an idea of what my 'hick ups' and 'just didn't quite work out's' actually consist of but I admit they feel … Continue reading Time for change
*said laughingly on His way out* What, you don't like that? bunny: No, but i like chocolate though! *hint hint* Bear: You do???? *smirk* What happened to the chocolate in the middle drawer?? bunny: I had 2 periods this month, what do YOU think happened to the chocolate???? Bear: *chuckle chuckle* Ahhh ..... Bears are … Continue reading Evil Bears!
Sitting on a Monday, got my feet up and trying to keep the weight off of my leg. Walking around, working for a couple of hours was enough this morning. The leg is aching but the bleeding has stopped. Still a bit open at the top but it seems to be coming along. With any … Continue reading Fluff and stuff ….