I’m still dominant

When we first started with D/s and trying to understand what and how we would go about it my husband was very unsure. I am and always have been a dominant personality so to try to understand how or why I would want a dominant myself was really an interesting contradiction. I don't mean domineering…

What is a dominant?

When it comes to life When it comes to sex When it comes to leading a submissive What is a dominant's role and how do you fulfill that role? Or is it simply my way or the highway? Is being dominant all about what the submissive should be/has to be doing for you? When a…

What if they find out? (you might not like this)

Friends, colleagues, family members .... I personally have never really understood the big deal behind it but I guess it's once again all in your perspective. Why should I have to be fearful or concerned that someone might find out I have a great deal of respect for the man I married? I can tell…

And it continues ….

There have been so many things needing my attention and my strength lately that sexy and submissive and needy is the last thing on my mind. I have been in full on mamma bear mode for some time and it is likely not going to end anytime soon. Sex is definitely not on the brain…

Jumping Jacks indeed!

Warning: This is a personal post, trigger warning ..... self harm. Please note if you choose to read, this is not a social commentary, this is not about dynamics or relationships or play practices. This is mine, my post, my need, my want to rejoice! I'm not even trying to explain my views here ....…

Well, He tried ….

But the warrior was in full force! It causes an interesting¬†dichotomy to be certain ... I am focused and although I'm generally 'happy go lucky' in demeanor I am very intense. Switching gears is something I can do instantly but only physically, like kneeling, because it is agreed upon. When it comes to emotionally, well…