The ‘when’ and ‘how’ of it.

When I am strong and full of life I kneel of my own will, force and strength. When I am tired and over run I need that will to be of your force and strength. Make sense? Thoughts?

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True ‘this’ and true ‘that’

You know what drives me a bit nutty? When I hear the terms 'true submissive' or 'Real dominant' - bleh! Everything in life is a choice, everyone has it in them to be and do whatever they like. I don't care for linear thinking, I don't care for narrow mindedness ... To be just one…

The words He says

He told me this weekend that I calm Him, make Him happy .... bring Him peace I think is what He means. Those thoughts and words bring me peace. He calms me as well, makes me happy, makes me softer. I worried a short while ago that I was getting too soft, too soft to…

A ‘little’ or not …… about a lot!

Oh boy, where to start! Just the idea of writing this makes my head ache but truth is I have seen in my travels some who have tried to deal with this thought and for some reason or other disappeared. It's a thought that did throw me for a loop. for a minute anyway before…

My ‘submission’ was and is a dominant act.

Confusing? It shouldn't be. In my view the main responsibility of a dominant is to identify and provide for the needs of those whom they have made themselves responsible. While in the dominant role at home it became obvious that my husband needed to be in charge in order to feel fulfilled in His role.…

The secret lies with Oprah padawon ….

One of the first relationship truths I learned as an adult and as a mindful act was from Oprah. Pretty much, ohhh 20 years ago or so .... Gotta love Oprah! *chuckle*  Although I don't remember the exact wording and the context was about children and parenting I believe, the message still rang true for…

Completely Appalled!

Search terms! "we use spanking as discipline sometimes -child -mom -videos -she -her -daughter -incest" I have no idea how *this* brought you here but you are absolutely in the wrong place and God help you if I find you first! Outside of wordpress I have no online presence, I know some of you like…