Newton’s Third Law

The physics of a D/s relationship also applies .... For every (submissive) action there is an equal and opposite (dominant) reaction ... the two forces must coexist in order for the energy to be maintained. In addition, someone must start the action or no reaction will be forthcoming to balance the equation ..... In a…

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D/s, TPE, M/s = selfcare

In my own personal experience the dynamic that we are working out here began mainly as a product of my own self-care initiative. I hesitate to label it as any one dynamic because it really does encompass ideas from all areas of this spectrum, depending on our needs at the time. The kinky sex and…

Chastity – no thank you.

I've become aware of some posts on chastity recently that have me thinking. I know it is not something for me, I know it would not enhance my submission it would actually reverse that process. I'm pretty hard-core so it did take an awful long time to happen, emphasis on awful, but it did happen…

Limits

We all have them, if you say you don't than you are kidding yourself. They are deal breakers, or things you simply can not do for mental or emotional issues. They can also be things that you can not live without. Technically speaking I suppose you could 'live' but you will be less than happy,…

Why do I?

Why do I write? Well first I don't consider this 'writing'. I certainly would never call myself a writer of any sort! But why do I write these words? I don't, really. I don't write, I sit in front of the keyboard and my fingertips feel the keys below. The feel of the keys opens…

In my head …..

I find myself in my head more and more lately, it's not a bad thing, I like it in there. I've always been afraid to just let go and enjoy the ride since we started this D/s thing that we are doing. Why? Well when I get in my head I get strong, really strong…

Freedom in His chains.

strong:   able to withstand great force or pressure. powerful:  having great power or strength. For as strong and powerful as I have always been I was never complete. Now that I am His, I am free. free:  not physically restrained, obstructed, or fixed; unimpeded. Strong, powerful and free. Even in the darkest and weightiest of days I…