The second week back to work and Bear is still keeping me on my toes, or ermm …. on my something anyway! *wink*
He left this message for me this morning, to be worn with my morning coffee. OYE!!
Of course, I got up later than usual today and my kid was already rising as well. I could have asked to ‘pass’ on this and pick it up some other time when W wasn’t up already. But if Bear is trying to stay on top of things and keep me engaged, i should try too, right?
W doesn’t normally get out of his room much, he’s a teenager and has all he needs right there! *chuckle* No school or friends to go visit right now so his bedroom has become his ‘man cave’!
Still, doesn’t mean he won’t meander down the stairs for a bite …. so i’m not about to take any chances in getting caught. I’ll have to improvise!
Amazingly enough a sports bra and t-shirt actually hides them quite well! Mind you it also presses and rubs things and intensifies the task for sure!!! :O
He has yet another simple task set for me later, He knows I thrive on pain more so than pleasure, pain is my pleasure. I guess that’s what makes me a masochist! Don’t get me wrong, i like pleasure as well but it’s not the driving force for my submission or my submissive mindset. It’s secondary ….
Next week i go back to work as well, i’m hoping we can maintain this refreshed energy. Normally I take the summers off, due to the current circumstances and need i have decided to work through.
There is something delicate about a dominant that cares, really cares, about the person He is with and the job He is doing.
I think the mainstream term is ‘gas lighting’, I call it manipulation but either way ….
It may be on purpose but I think sometimes it’s just a reaction, a negative reaction to a hard lived life.
The point remains, a submissive can easily dethrone a caring dominant – and a caring dominant can easily be dethroned. That’s where time, wisdom and understanding of your submissive comes into play. The sign of an experienced dominant – OR an experienced submissive!
How do you suppose the Dom learned in the first place?
Yin and Yang – balance – what He holds I yield and what I hold He learns.