Small things are important too!

Last evening Sir decided that He would do some things to help maintain our connection and ensure that continued calm we both enjoy in this life. We had a busy but wonderful weekend and Monday always flies by when getting back to work and taking care of whatever might need attention. By Tuesday things start…

Replacing old memories …

This weekend is kind of special around here, we have a 'Retrofest' that show cases old cars and trucks, some pretty cool and impressive ones to be sure. People come from all over to bring their cars and to look ... Sir loves to go up town and check them out. It has long been…

And it continues ….

There have been so many things needing my attention and my strength lately that sexy and submissive and needy is the last thing on my mind. I have been in full on mamma bear mode for some time and it is likely not going to end anytime soon. Sex is definitely not on the brain…

Jumping Jacks indeed!

Warning: This is a personal post, trigger warning ..... self harm. Please note if you choose to read, this is not a social commentary, this is not about dynamics or relationships or play practices. This is mine, my post, my need, my want to rejoice! I'm not even trying to explain my views here ....…

Some of my favourite things …

I wrote this over a year ago when most of you folks didn’t know I existed! LOL I’m not sure if it’s interesting or not but it does give you a glimpse of how I think and live. I’m a free spirit in general and don’t fit into any one category … and I like it that way! 😉 To me life is about finding joy in the moment and being the best I can be.

Sir's nijntje

I am a very realistic and straight forward person but I am by no means pessimistic. I am mature and responsible and I don’t complain, I find solutions. But that doesn’t mean that I don’t enjoy the simple things in life, as a matter of fact I find that the simple things are the ones that make the biggest difference in your general well being and state of mind.

I don’t consider myself big or little or middle or whatever, I am just me. I like the feel of a soft stuffed toy and I can’t go by the toy section without feeling every one of them and determining which is the fluffiest! 😀 Normally that one gets picked up and nuzzled into my neck for a hug. This elicits a smirk for sure and normally an all out smile from Sir.

I like long socks with lots of colours…

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… just what is it?

❤ Oh, what a good girl! Said with animation and excitement with a touch of surprise. The smile, the bright eyes and the joyful tone .... His pleasure was so obvious! Ah, those words ..... I just can't get them out of my head, 18 hours later and counting ... Distracting, but pleasantly so -…

Well, He tried ….

But the warrior was in full force! It causes an interesting dichotomy to be certain ... I am focused and although I'm generally 'happy go lucky' in demeanor I am very intense. Switching gears is something I can do instantly but only physically, like kneeling, because it is agreed upon. When it comes to emotionally, well…