Once upon a time …

**Clearing my head, you might want to skip this one.** A couple of years ago when we were enjoying our kinky D/s connection everything seemed like sunshine. We played, a lot, and we were both always in the best of moods. There wasn't much that phased us .... maybe it should have. A few years …

I know it shouldn’t but ….

I'll be the first to tell you that my own self worth and sexual confidence should have nothing to do with what anyone thinks or says but me. I believe that too, it's not just words, it's the truth, however ... You can't deny that having someone else interested and invested in being with you …

The old switcheroo and I was right ….

I'm not entirely sure what this post is going to end up like, I normally save this kind of 'brain down load' for else where but I think this one might involve some kink and sex issues so it's probably best here. First off, Sunday night was a bust. It did not go well and …

Happy Monday!

Hope you folks are faring better!

TGIF! ;)

Mental Meltdown

It appears I'm full of verb-ology today! LOL Today has been one of those days, one of those days that I creep deep into my head and stay there. I've done everything I'm supposed to do, I've politely asked for exemptions for things I couldn't do and everything has been 'even' and up to snuff …

Submissive request

** I keep saying we talk all the time, I keep saying our communication is part of what keeps this afloat even when things get hectic, I keep saying that it's the truth of our connection. So I thought I'd show you ... ** EMS - I think I need your assistance and guidance in something. This …

‘Strange space’

Forget 'subspace' that comes easily when the Bear and I play, I fall quickly when He's in the right mind space Himself. It's like my inner sub is just waiting to be claimed and guided, ready to follow and relax into that mind space that allows everything else to just fall away. That is a …

First time in a while …. :D

I don't watch much TV but the Walking Dead is coming back on this weekend and I for one am very excited. Before you ask, no I don't watch the show! *giggle* The boys watch the show and they make an evening of it by going over to Gramma's house for pop and popcorn and …

Content

I can always tell when my mind is in a good, steady place. I don't mean 'happy' or excited, or with new and dramatic things going on. I don't mean happy-go-lucky which can change in a heart beat depending on who you are and how you work, I mean content .... at peace, calm and …