Sometimes things happen that really speak to the power of BDSM in our relationship. I'm off for a few hours in the middle of my day today and so i'm trying to get caught up on some gardening. It had been raining much too much around here to be able to get anything done. Plants … Continue reading It’s for times like these ….
Dancing With a Stranger - Sam Smith & Normani (No, i'm not dancing with anyone else, in case there is any confusion. Just like the song and this bit fits! *smiles*) Happy Monday! ❤ Hmm, hmm I don't wanna be alone tonight It's pretty clear that I'm not over you I'm still thinking 'bout the … Continue reading Missing Him on Monday …
Not sure why this is on my mind now, maybe because it's been long enough and i'm now daydreaming while i wait! *giggle* I remember having Him on top of me, His hand around my neck and one with fingers down my throat. Moving me and molding me to whatever He wanted ... i was … Continue reading A couple of weeks ago ….
I've been sending Him naughty pictures again here and there, when i get a chance. I'm still working everyday so there really isn't much by way of opportunity but every so often before or after a shower i get just a few extra minutes, and then ..... We decided last week that the kink and … Continue reading Naughty- and TGIF ❤
I'm lucky that i can afford to work part time and i'm lucky that the Bear has no problem with that idea, He actually encourages it! Lately however one of my part time commitments has become full time and for a couple of months now i haven't had that break that i enjoy and frankly, … Continue reading Is it Friday yet …. ?
One of the things i have to work on, get back into, is vocalizing my pleasure when we are playing or just touching at all. I know this is one thing that the Bear really enjoys, listening to how He's making me feel and react! I've said before i'm normally very much in my head, … Continue reading Vocalizing – Relearning how to be His toy.
Spring has things growing and looking fresh. Seems spring has brought the Bear out of hibernation as well!! Like many of us, the person who wanted to start a D/s connection in our marriage was me. Bear was interested and has been learning along the way but it has mostly felt like i was the … Continue reading Fresh and new
When life gets busy sometimes all you have is a few minutes in time before you need to be back at doing whatever it is life throws your way. A few moments in time is sometimes all you need .... This morning, before the kids wake and chores need doing we sat and had our … Continue reading Stolen moments
The rain has finally let up, for now. The gardens need tending and flowers need buying and planting. The morning started off a bit slow, i'm still fighting this cold and night time coughing fits are making it hard to sleep. We had breakfast and then kind of vegged on the couch a bit in … Continue reading A good day to be me …
I've been looking at this all wrong. Trying so hard to be submissive not pushy ... and i have started looking around. I have been looking at sites that document 'submissives' and 'slaves' as they find their way through the process. Guess what i found? Being me and doing/starting stuff is not un-submissive ..... it's … Continue reading Well now ….