It binds us.

We’ve started adding more play (kink) to our lives again and we’ve even managed to add some impact!

Recently we got to play with the floggers, as well as some new toys that we had decided to order in the spring!

He remembered to add some bondage … for my sake mostly. It helps with my mental space, quiets things in my head. He likes it too, i’m sure of that, but with the lack of opportunity lately (years) it can be easy to just ‘skip ahead’ and forget to add all the layers that really do make it something even more special to experience. For us anyway …

We are taking a chance i know, with the youngest still at home and well, stuck! It’s not like there is anywhere to go right now with everyone cautious over Covid 19. So far i haven’t noticed any changes in him or his mental health so we move forward and cross our fingers! Our play used to be a bit of a trigger for his anxiety, not that we make it a ‘thing’ but at 18 i’m sure he can guess some of the things he overhears from time to time!

What i do notice – still notice – is that when we get to play i miss Him more when He is not here. It binds us …

 

It somehow mimics the energy and feelings one gets when you are in a new relationship. He is constantly hovering in my mind.

Happy hump day! ❤ *smiles*

 

5 thoughts on “It binds us.

  1. Bondage that bind….!

    Kudos ! Your said it so well “What i do notice – still notice – is that when we get to play i miss Him more when He is not here. It binds us …” Bondage is for binding people one to another. Like playing together. ..Like having sex. Wasnt it Master and Johnson who spoke some 50 years ago of the “Pleasure bond”.? but they thought pleasure not ropes even less floggers. Once again : bravo !…you are making science progress ; -)

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  2. I heard a really great podcast (kinky of course… the only kind I listen to), where the guests words stuck in my head. In taking about pain and impact play, he called it a shared bonding experience. Which it certainly is!

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