There is something delicate about a dominant that cares, really cares, about the person He is with and the job He is doing.
I think the mainstream term is ‘gas lighting’, I call it manipulation but either way ….
It may be on purpose but I think sometimes it’s just a reaction, a negative reaction to a hard lived life.
The point remains, a submissive can easily dethrone a caring dominant – and a caring dominant can easily be dethroned. That’s where time, wisdom and understanding of your submissive comes into play. The sign of an experienced dominant – OR an experienced submissive!
How do you suppose the Dom learned in the first place?
Yin and Yang – balance – what He holds I yield and what I hold He learns.
Simple, right?? LoL