A quick update

We’ve started using the cane again. It’s not my favourite implement for warm ups and such but it is quiet and with some patience and practice it can be used for warm up as well.

Bear normally wants to ‘skip ahead’! *smirk* His sadistic side can at times be impatient! *ouch*

I’ve realized though just how fast i fall back into rhythm with Him and into a subspace trance. For someone who’s always ‘on alert’, i’m not entirely sure how i feel about that.

Good i suppose, it only goes to show the trust we have between us, …… right??

My body is out of practice though, the fall into subspace also brings with it the ‘coming down’ of chemicals and physical reactions that make me out for the count, for a while. That keeps me/us from playing to much or too long. There isn’t any real opportunity to be ‘down’ for very long.

I’ve found a little cabin that i’d like to rent, for a few days. It’s close enough to home that we could still be back and forth for the boy, but take a few hours away for us! *wink* I have heels and collar and leash all playing around in my head. It’s distracting but enticing.

Who knows, maybe if things work out we can have the better part of a few days to play out an in-depth M/s dynamic.

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I’m not holding my breath, but it is nice to daydream!

I’m hoping to get to reading and writing but life has just been too busy and hectic. I do miss catching up on what you are all up to!!

Hope you’re well – gotta bounce! *wink*

11 thoughts on “A quick update

    1. Yes, it is interesting, it’s like the beginning when i was just getting used to dealing with the chemicals and the rush. At first there was a lot of aftercare required but after a while i could play pretty rough without really feeling the after effects as significantly.

      It seems now i’m back to the ‘middle’, not as *green* as the beginning but definitely not as immune (for lack of a better description) as i got to be.

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    1. No, it’s not weird! LoL I really enjoy the cane as well, I just prefer it when we can start with other things and work our way up! ๐Ÿ˜‰ But it’s not noisy and right now that’s what matters.
      Welcome to the blog!! ๐Ÿ™‚

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    1. I’m hopeful! The youngest is doing okay and it’s only a 20 min drive. We probably won’t stay the nights but there are a lot of other hours in the days that we could have fun with! ๐Ÿ˜€ Fingers totally crossed!

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  1. Life is manic sometimes. The cabin sounds great though, when you can now, you definitely should try to go and enjoy!
    I have had hardly time to write or read either and I miss everyoneโ€™s stories. Itโ€™s good to catch up a little bit.

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    1. Looks like the cabin will have to wait! *sigh* It’s the way things go around here … never fails. Oh well! ๐Ÿ™‚
      I’m looking forward to getting caught up on some reading soon, and who knows, maybe even a bit of writing. It’s nice to hear from you, heading over to see what you’ve been up to now! ๐Ÿ™‚

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