Today, during my exploring i read some words of wisdom.
If you want to submit, submit ……… if you don’t want to, than don’t!
The basic gist of it was don’t make the other person responsible for ‘making’ you do it with punishments and repercussions, etc.
In the end we are all responsible for our own lives, our dynamics and for the authenticity we feel within those.
So ….. if you want to, do …. and if you don’t ….
The choice is yours and yours alone.