Just once

I don’t fit in, i never have and that’s okay, truly.

I have no intention of fitting in or trying to be someone else’s idea of a …. whatever.

I can’t deny though, that just once it would be nice to find someone else, like me. Like me here, in ‘sub’ land so i could have a conversation and maybe compare notes.

Is that too much to ask … ???



20 thoughts on “Just once

  1. No, its not. But that’s a difficult thing to find. We’re all so different in minute ways, it can affect (and effect) each of our interpretations of the scene.

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    1. That’s true, but even someone ‘close’! LoL Honestly i identify much more with the personalities of ‘doms’ of the population even though i am in the ‘sub’ pool. It makes for hard times when trying to find ‘friends’ to converse with.

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      1. Yes, sorry, i figured we could continue this conversation more privately. I just haven’t had a free moment to spare really. Evenings find me disconnected normally and the weather has me moving and thinking slowly! 😛


  2. You may not find someone identical, but there’s a lot of us vocal or lurking that are interested in what you have to say, and to differing degrees understand your perspective.

    I might not be like you entirely, but the parts that are make me feel a little less alone in this world. I hope maybe there’s some comfort in knowing that.

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    1. Thank you, sheldonbunny, that’s a very kind thing to say. I appreciate that and the fact that you follow my ‘madness’! LoL

      Having a bit of a back and forth is what makes a conversation, what gives perhaps a new thought or idea a place to grow. I’m starting to understand what Nietzsche felt like before he went a little kooky!

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    1. Thank you, angel. I appreciate that 🙂 I know you have had a lot to deal with in recent past, hope all has been handled and worked out well.
      I do miss your posts as well my friend, especially now that my garden is in full force, i remember reading about yours. 😀


  3. Have you tried fet life, or looking for a munch? I’ve heard of other places where they are advertised. I’m thinking of trying to find one myself, but am not so sure also…
    Feel free to email me also! I’d love to have more conversations!

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    1. I don’t ‘do’ social media, this wordpress thing is the only online presence i have. I don’t have a cell phone etc. …. LoL I know, odd but true. I’ve heard and experienced some of what’s out there and frankly i have enough stress in my life without going to look for that kind of drama.

      Bear wouldn’t like the idea of meeting anyone around here and that’s fine with me too. I’m not much of a people person, i much prefer my solitude. I realize that’s part of the issue and so i was hoping i’d find a connection or two through this web site. It just hasn’t worked out that way.

      I’ve found littles, middles, subs and slaves. I’ve found pets, exhibitionists and the like but never have i found anyone with quite the same twist as me, and i’m sure you’ve noticed the lack of comments around these parts! *chuckle*


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