I’ve been looking at this all wrong.
Trying so hard to be submissive not pushy … and i have started looking around. I have been looking at sites that document ‘submissives’ and ‘slaves’ as they find their way through the process.
Guess what i found?
Being me and doing/starting stuff is not un-submissive ….. it’s actually what everyone else is trying to figure out how to do.
This is a very simplified version of what needs to be done but of course that’s what i do. I take issues and make them ‘easy’. Manageable …
Turns out the best way for me to excel at being D/s, M/s is to simply be me ….
How about that …. i’ve been doing it all wrong all along. I should just be me! 😉 LoL