This probably doesn’t fit well with the general idea of D/s but around here my Dom is currently doing much of the housework, especially the more physically demanding work even though I’m home all day, every day and only work part-time. How’s that for your typical D/s relationship! *chuckle*
I’m not happy about it but my current physical state isn’t giving me any choice. I would prefer to be doing things for my Dom, for my husband, but at the moment I can’t. It’s frustrating for me no doubt but that’s just the way it is.
I’m not failing as His submissive, He is excelling as my Dominant. Part of this relationship in our opinion is that He has made Himself responsible for my well-being. He’s making me ‘sit and stay’ …..
I admit that if we hadn’t decided to start venturing into this ‘dynamic’ I would likely be guilting myself to the point of madness by now!! I would also be working myself too hard and likely causing many more issues in the long run.
I’ve never been one to count on anyone for help, I’m the one who normally gets sh*t done! Part of my submissive journey was opening myself up to count on my husband. I’ve changed the dialogue in my head from ‘i’m failing’ to He’s taking care of me and helping. He is doing His job.
I’m not sure I could be here without some serious mental anguish if we hadn’t embarked on this kinky journey. Go figure! *chuckle*