Since I have some things hopping through my little bunny brain … I’m curious!
If you know things that make your dominant happy, ritualistic posturing things, that he doesn’t often call for BUT when you do them of your own desire alone He always comments on how happy He is to see it, or be surprised by it …..
If you choose to go ahead and do those things without being asked but they are in fact BDSM type rituals. Are you pushing your boundaries and topping? Or are you simply doing your best to be pleasing and reinforce the dynamic?
Does it mainly depend on what energy you are coming into the room with? What your true intentions are ….
The Bear doesn’t often ask for much, you just never know when the opportunity will show itself around here, too many eyes and ears about usually. There is no denying the charge of energy i see in His eyes and in His body when i am able to surprise Him though.