Not every D/s relationship actually deals with real discipline. Not every submissive wants or needs to be told to go to bed on time and eat three meals a day. The rules you have between a Dom and sub (or any variety of top and bottom) have to be accepted on both sides. A submissive […]
As I wrote just a few days ago, we are ‘upping the ante‘ around here now that things have settled down. Part of that is implementing some rules and rituals that we are going to try to use more often out of the bedroom, hopefully not triggering any behaviours in the boys like last time!
I ran across this post and it’s a very well written and timely reminder of how to go about setting those things in place.
The part on arbitrary rules and how the author uses them to communicate feelings and needs when they can’t ‘speak’ them out loud is just wonderful. I thought it might be very helpful for those who also have a hard time communicating when times get complicated and feelings get on high alert!
Do check it out, Happy Saturday! ❤