One of my favourite sayings is ‘get over yourself’, if it’s not falling out of my face you can bet it’s on my mind! *chuckle* I don’t say it often, not really, but boy does that record play over and over in my head.
Well, this weekend I plan on using that saying, with myself! *wink* It’s time and I need some fun. I need to get some relief so that getting back ‘in the game’ isn’t so daunting!
Funny how hard it is to ask for what you want, just ask. Put is out there, see what happens.
It seems to get all mushed up with the ‘no, that’s topping’ idea. It does for me anyway. Always the same thing, ‘you can’t just put toys out, that’s topping’. ‘You can’t just ask for some impact, you can’t just grab the cuffs and present them to your Dom’ …
Oh no, no, no …. making clear what you need is topping, you need to wait until they figure it out, find the time and opportunity hidden in plain site that they just missed but you saw.
These are the times that my personality and my lifestyle collide. I’m the planner, I’m the one who sees every opportunity, I’m the one ….. we all have our strengths and this is one of mine.
Can’t just be upfront and say ‘hey, look at that, we have a moment, can we make use of it? And this flogger’??
Yup, using my favourite saying on myself this time. Getting over myself and just putting it out there. I need to get this momentum going in the right direction. Too much nothing is just too much! Sex alone doesn’t do it for me …… I need more.
It will need to be quieter play, I will need to be quieter …. could be an adventure there!
I’ve never been one to give in! *wink* So here we go ….
Better hang on to your socks, Sir! I know you’re working the weekend, I’ll make the coffee extra strong! *giggle*
Happy Friday! *wink*