I wasn’t going to post anything, but I came across something that prompted this comment from me so I’m putting it here, too.
Write it down = out of my head! 😉
To those of you who have a real problem trying to say “Happy Father’s Day”:
What he did doesn’t have to dictate your life, it really doesn’t.
If you are like most of the rest of us, what you are waiting for is to give yourself permission to just hate what he did. It’s okay, you are allowed to, no apologies for how it feels! It doesn’t make you a bad person …..
Secondly, I’m guessing you need to realize that it wasn’t you. Not something you did, not something you should have done and not about your worth as a person.
His problem, His issues, His fault, His failure. It was never about you …. never about any of us in this same boat for whatever our reasons.