The Bear …

Just for fun and as a compliment to the last post! 😀

I asked the Bear to take the spirit animal quiz and guess what he got?? *giggle*

Yup the Bear is a Bear! I started calling Him that not too long after we started this new arrangement and even though He calls me nijntje I’ve always identified as more of a wolf. (You can go back over the last couple of years and find plenty of posts with that theme.)

It appears my *wolf* instincts were right on the money! I choose Bear because I view Him as strong and stable, an earthy type that grounds me and keeps me sane.

He was a bit surprised, I wasn’t! *wink* According to the information:

“The polar bear is considered as the “Wise Teacher” as it shows how to survive in harsh conditions.”

I’m going to have to second that, Bear! *wink* When we met my ‘conditions’ in life were terribly harsh, the Bear helped me get stronger and wiser myself. Not having to watch my back every second of the day allowed me to heal (another Bear quality) and get stronger still!

“Bears symbolize warrior spirit and courage to fight. The bear’s spirit would be invoked to help the warriors in the battle.”

And there you have it! I haven’t faltered or lost a battle since we met and the ones I’m currently involved in haven’t stopped me either! I heal, recharge and regroup in the Bear and then I’m ready to go again. That’s why He’s my dominant, not some contract or label …

Love You Always, Bear! ❤

BTW I didn’t need to be convinced to go to Him, I choose to. With everyone out there doing the online search for a ‘D/s’ relationship please remember, the submissive holds power. You don’t become anyone’s submissive because they say so, you do it because you want to. Anyone pressuring you to is way out-of-bounds. A real dominant doesn’t need to convince you, you do it willingly and eagerly.

Anyone trying to force you, in any way, is a fake! I’ve been reading some very disturbing accounts of online D/s activities that I can’t imagine anyone would want to be a part of. It’s up to the rest of us to make sure they get the message that creeping, stalking and abuse is NOT D/S! Rant over … 😉


7 thoughts on “The Bear …

    1. Thank you, C! I wasn’t going to rant at the end but I couldn’t help myself! I believe one of the culprits is reading ….

      Butterfly humm, I guess I have more reading to do! 😀


    2. “the butterfly emphasizes the ability to move from one state, perspective, lifestyle to another.”

      Seems I found my ‘butterfly’ at the perfect stage of my life, and change! Just as I was learning to put my sword down for a while, go figure! *wink*


  1. I’m an elk. Let me tell you that I can outrun any predator. Good Lord, I got a good laugh over that.😀


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