I have been off work these last two days and today as well. Tomorrow things will be back to full force and I will be busy, moving and working and likely have no time to stop, let alone think of anything that isn't happening right here and now. Today I'm enjoying thinking of Him. Remembering … Continue reading Always on my mind
https://youtu.be/yRYFKcMa_Ek Since we're going back to the beginning .... *giggle* This is the 'next Gen' for us I guess and the truth is that it all boils down to trust, like it always does. I have to trust that letting myself be me won't knock the Bear 'out of the water' and that He won't … Continue reading Watch Out Bear! *wink*
I don't think the key to this is to find that perfect match or waiting for your partner to become that perfect match. I think the key is to find that person who will never stop trying, for you, because of you. From both sides .... The first one doesn't exist anyway.
I read a post a little while back about Bastinado and it got me thinking. Now we have tried this before, a very long time ago and to be honest I more or less forgot about it. I did enjoy our play time when we did and I can't even remember why we decided to try … Continue reading Odd Happenings
Ahhhh, it feels good to be back to myself! I found the motivation that the Bear was missing, ME! No more subdued version of myself. This was me when we met, this is me now. Full strength, feisty and confident. This is what He wants to control anyway ... *wink* https://youtu.be/AQ4xwmZ6zi4?t=282 And yes beagle I … Continue reading One lump, or two?!? LoL
You know when you're being cheeky and you write a post that gives Him a challenge? The one that He accepts without a second thought .... *giggle* You know when He comes home in the early afternoon and you sneak your way around to the front door to surprise Him! *wink* You know when He … Continue reading You know that feeling …. ?
This has been a long time favourite, I'd say the signs were always there! *chuckle* Happy Friday All! Catch me if you can Bear! Or maybe .... I'll catch you! *giggle* https://youtu.be/8ISq4u_Kv9Y A wild ride, over stony ground Such a lust for life, the circus comes to town We are the hungry ones, on a … Continue reading Pet Play? *wink* LoL
We're still working with this new idea of no rules, or more appropriately 'few' rules. It is still working out well, it frees me to be more playful and cheeky and in turn it fuels the fires! Sometimes less is more .... We did take advantage of the few minutes we had last Sunday and … Continue reading Still making progress!
I love it when I find things written in simple truths, without pretense, without masks, without appearances .... This really spoke to me and I felt you might like it, and learn from it too. Enjoy! A Dominant is no more individual than a submissive. They are no more self sufficient, no more comfortable in … Continue reading Simple Truths – A Re-Blog
I think some of the most telling things about a relationship might not be the things that people would normally think of. Since I've been on about communication lately my brain just took it a bit further. One of my most favourite part of the day(s) is when Sir comes in excited to tell me … Continue reading My favourite time of day ….