I know, shocking! *chuckle* Don’t worry I was surprised too. but her personality and outstanding kind nature won me over!
I only ever met her because she married a friend of mine from back in my teens/very early twenties. Back when life was not within my control but I was just starting to really stand straight, and really grow in my own confidence.
There was a time back then when I had to leave an abusive relationship and was left with nowhere to go. Okay, I left a lot of abusive relationships but this was a ‘romantic’ one. Not being one to express myself or burden anyone I didn’t say a word to anyone.
I wouldn’t have gone back to my parents, that would be out of the pan and into the fire, no thank you! So I decided to basically sleep/stay at work. I had to close up and do the books anyway and I had the key and no one really cared one way or the other so there I stayed.
Well this friend was on his way home that first night and noticed the light, he popped in and knocked, he knew I would open up and I did. Some questions and conversation later I told him there was no way I was going anywhere SO he said fine, then I’m staying the night too.
The middle of the night, in the middle of ‘the strip’ was no where for a lady and possibly not safe should someone notice. We did that for a few nights, he would come in after closing and stay the night to be sure I was safe. No, we were never ‘romantic’, it was more of a big brother relationship we shared.
So this friend of mine, she’s his wife. I met her some years later after he and I ran into each other again and realized we now live very close to each other. He knows the Bear very well, I know his wife very well. We enjoy each others company which says something because both she and I would rather be alone than social. LoL
He and the Bear a very much alike, as a matter of fact I mentioned to them the personality profiles and sure enough he and the Bear are the same! No surprise there, to me or his wife. *giggle*
She is always very respectful of him and he is very obviously protective of her. I don’t mean muscle meat head type although I’m sure he would raise dukes if needed, but protective of her emotional state, happiness and over all well-being.
There is no doubt in my mind that she never doubts that he has her back and I have no doubt he feels the same about her.
They have 3 children and some issues to deal with as well, don’t we all? They make time for each other and communicate their needs and feelings openly and honestly. Like I said, we are friends, we talk. 🙂
I don’t know if they are kinky or not, I don’t see any obvious symbolic adornments but ….. does it matter?
She relies on him for strength and he supports her in this crazy world of ours, together they are strong. She happily follows his lead because he never leaves her …..
They don’t have labels but they have what we have.
Like I said, I don’t know if they are kinky, but does it matter? At some point and for whatever length of time we will all have to put our kink on hold. Are we any less D/s because of it?
What say you?