I’ve been ‘triggered’ so I am writing this down, in case anyone else missed the point.
Everything I write about has to do with what happens next. What happens when the fantasy wares off and real life takes hold once again. How do you make it last?
I don’t write about rules or rituals or protocols, I don’t write about kink and I don’t write my sexual escapades … I write about the real life nitty gritty boring everyday stuff. The stuff that happens and you need perspective on if you want to keep the feeling of that new and exciting dynamic without feeling let down or exhausted!
Yes, it is the small stuff that keeps it real, but only if you put it in perspective and make it mean something! You want to be bored? You will be … You want to make it mean less? It will ….
The smallest actions meant everything at the beginning, after a while they become usual, normal, basic …. The action hasn’t changed, you have!