I have never been in the ‘community’ and certainly have no experience when it comes to this. I don’t have an online presence outside of this one and I don’t facebook, fetlife, or any other such thing ….. but the more I read and hear stories from submissives across the globe the more I think this really does need to be said again, and again and again ….
What is your motivation behind being collared?
nijntje & The Bear 
It’s a good post. I was hoping some readers had already answered the questions she posed!
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Me too! but I think you need to know the answer before you can give an answer. Perhaps that’s what should be on the forefront of the mind of anyone looking to be collared …
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I have noticed that if you do not have a fetlife and you attempt to attend a community function… people act real weird
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