Why BDSM for me

This was 1 year ago and it’s basically the same thing I’m missing now …. I guess with all the business of the season we are left in a repeating pattern!

nijntje & The Bear

Besides being enjoyable physically there is a much more important thing that BDSM provides for me. For me the mental aspects of the exercise are more important and needed and allow me to function in a more relaxed and happy state in general.

When I think of our dynamic I know that there is not much need for rules or corrections in our day to day life. Generally speaking you already have things the way you want them and really have no want to change anything or add anything to the daily interactions. I’ve been practicing putting you first in my mind for nearly 21 years. Likewise you have been watching out for my best interests and giving me the support and attention I need in order to be the best ‘me’ I can be. I think we’ve got this! 🙂

So this is where the BDSM comes into play…

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