I’m a submissive to Sir, of that I am certain. I have absolutely no need or want to control Him or be ‘one up’ on Him what so ever. I have no need to over see His actions or tell Him what He should be doing … it’s not my place and frankly I have no interest in doing that with Sir. I had no interest in doing that before D/s either, not with my man thank you.
I’ve never been one to ‘mother’ Him either, or any adult for that matter. I figured that if I wanted children I would have them, and I did, two …. been there, done that, bought the t-shirt thank you! LOL If you are an adult that needs mothering , well I’m the wrong person to approach. That’s probably one of my biggest pet peeves, immaturity in a mature situation. (I’m not trying to insult anyone here, it’s just not something I want to handle.)
I am very content and at peace following Sir and His ways where ever that might lead and how ever He wishes to lead. That being said, I have absolutely no problem being in charge of my life, or at work, or with a stranger … or whatever the situation dictates.
I don’t get stressed or run down or over whelmed. I don’t get to feeling uncomfortable or that I’m losing myself … or that something is missing. I like the energy, I like being in charge and I have no problem taking command of the ship when needed. It doesn’t scare me or exhaust me, it thrills me!
So yes I am His submissive, but I’m not ‘A’ submissive …. I would not be this way with anyone else. I’d likely chew them up, and spit them out ….! lol
So I have been learning a lot from reading and chatting but I certainly can’t say I have found a place that I fit! Besides here with Sir of course.
Not sure why I felt I needed to say that, but if you are following my site it might be important information for you to understand my point of view on things. I know it’s not for everyone but now you know a bit more of why … 😀
Happy Tuesday!
If you like to see what the rest of my day is like you can try to find my other site! *giggle* ;P
nijntje & The Bear 
Exactly! I feel exactly the same. So much this! Often other “Doms” online don’t get it.
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Interesting.. this very subject was a point of conversation with my slave last night. It is a subject I was considering for my next blog, Now I am sure I’ll write it. Izrina said many things, but in essence, she wondered if she loved service, more than submission. Its an important consideration. I wonder.. do strong persons such as yourself submit to only one for the pleasure of service? Or is it more complicated?, Perhaps a need to find a comfortable place in the hierarchies of power that surround us? Good stuff.. plenty to ponder..
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The short answer, it’s complicated!
I don’t find pleasure in service in and of itself and I can’t say that submission was ever a ‘need’ either, not for me anyway.
I’ll try to explain it simply but I’ll likely write about it in more detail soon.
I am a naturally dominant person, what I found was Sir’s need for me to be submissive to Him. I brought this to Him in hopes of fulfilling something He was missing and making Him happy. I’m not saying I don’t get anything out of it, quite the contrary, I get much more than I would have ever imagined originally, but it was not the driving force for heading down this path.
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In an effort to find the origin of an image I came upon your blog. It is wonderful and I look forward to further reading. I enjoy our like-mindedness.
Regarding the image, it seems you used the image in a protected post on November 18, 2016. The image comes from SOMEWHERE, maybe you can help? Sincere thanks.
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Hi Pantera, I’m glad you’re enjoying the site and welcome!
As to an image, I’m not sure why or how you were lead here but I have looked just to be certain and the protected post holds no images what so ever, it is a diary post for my Sir and so it is private but no pictures, sorry I couldn’t help.
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Reblogged this on TPEleatherboy and commented:
MASTER nijntje, one thing I want to make clear is that I never claimed that I get something here in my area.I `m single slave.and ready to move MASTER! As my nick name says or expresses that I am ready for my own slavery, Consensual.
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stop re-blogging or commenting
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