Yup, you read that right …. for some reason or other I remember making that exact comment about/to Sir before we had kids and long before any of this D/s business was brought to the forefront! LONG before …. lol We were pretty newly married and playing some board game with friends.
Well as a young, professional woman working in the modern world and just newly married, hanging out and having fun with friends in a similar situation …. everyone’s mouth, including Sir’s, dropped! Hahaha
I’m sure they thought I was joking, I was asked as much if I recall correctly, and to everyone’s surprise, including my own, I was not! Now a quick side note, this was not at all my known personality type, to be Susie Home Maker or picture myself in a kitchen for some man …. It was probably the farthest thing from what anyone would expect, including me! But it happened, just like that ….
Cooking was the one thing I hadn’t done much of (that wasn’t ethnically mine) and at the time Sir loved nothing more than to tell me how His mom made this or His mom made that …. we come from two very different backgrounds and the kitchen/food we were used to was not at all the same as the other’s! I guess the going attitude would have been “if you don’t like it, make it yourself or go get something.” Worrying about what a man thought of your cooking was certainly not what people in my circles would have thought of! lol
That might have been the first time I let slip the fact that I wanted Him to be the man of the house, and that what He thought mattered a lot to me.
As much as I want to be strong and independent and self-sufficient … the list goes on and on and on … the only one I have every truly wanted to please was Sir! I’ve been looking for the proverbial ‘good girl’ from this man for some 20+ years and I can’t explain it, and I can’t put my finger on it, but I can tell you that He is the one, and only one that has ever inspired this in me.
And still does …. every day.
Love You Sir, Always ❤