Sometimes …. I can be so confusing.

It does not escape me that I must be a walking, talking conundrum to you. I am likely the furthest thing from submissive you have ever seen male or female. I can only imagine how it is you get your mind around when, and how to treat me like the dominant soul that I am and then the submissive ‘bunny’ that you know.

I’ve never been a follower of the crowd, I make my own way. I don’t rely on others and I am more then capable of doing anything alone, but then you arrive and need to figure out how to lead and control this beast of a bunny! 😀

You are not loud and shouting and don’t try to over power or belittle, but you do make me listen and follow. Perhaps more appropriately, I should say you inspire me to listen and follow. It’s your strength of character and understanding that makes me want to kneel for you and be taken by you. It’s the fact that you respect me and admire my strength beyond all else that makes it possible for me to crawl to you and be helpless in your arms.

To the rest of the world and the rest of the time I am the pillar of strength and security … and when all is said and done, you are mine!

Love You Always Sir ❤


4 thoughts on “Sometimes …. I can be so confusing.

  1. How little we know of others’ dynamics and relationships! I assumed you were naturally submissive, yet kept seeing the tag ‘Alpha Submissive’ and wondered about it. Now I know. Whereas I feel I was forced to become alpha unnaturally due to my husband being gone so much of the time, leaving me to make all the decisions. I didn’t care for this role very much but I did adapt. Now I struggle being submissive to him because I became the alpha by default. I WANT to be everything to him and allow him to take control, but it is very difficult. So, we are both contradictions to our Sirs. I enjoyed this post very much.


    1. Thank you again! 😀 There are so many facets to a relationship and personality that it really is difficult to put it all down in one post.
      Simplifying things again I will say that I chose this dynamic because Sir was unhappy (or at least not as happy as He could have been) with the way things were. Obviously He is worthy of my submission etc. etc. but as far as personality types I would identify as a ‘warrior princess’ if I was to rely on labels! 😉 And will never be submissive to another….


  2. Reblogged this on nijntje & The Bear and commented:

    There are enough new people to the blog that I felt I should post this once more. In the beginning the posts read more like letters to my One and only because that’s why I started this blog in the first place. The paper was starting to stack up and we didn’t want to run the risk of the boys finding them, or anyone else for that matter.
    Anyway, it explains just a bit of what The Bear needs to tackle as well, it can’t be easy watching me dominate in the world and then changing His own gears when the door to the outside world closes behind us.
    If you are a dominant personality yourself you have an understanding of the type of momentum that carries, where ever you go. I’m not the only one trying to ‘flip the switch’ at the end of the day!


Comments welcome! :D

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Google photo

You are commenting using your Google account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.