To anyone reading this post, please keep in mind that these are letters to MY Sir. This is my opinion and I am well aware that there are many differing opinions in the world of D/s and just in general…
So at which point do we cross over from consensual domination and submission to being simply immature and selfish. Sometimes even bordering on oppressive … I thought women having to play dumb went out in the 50s and 60s! Would you be upset with me for simply doing something to the best of my ability?
I thought one of the joys of these relationships was that we helped each other to be better then what we are alone! Wanting the best for each other despite our own wants and never putting our own selfish desires ahead of the other person is what makes us stand apart from the vanilla world.
If that’s the case, why in the world would you want me to pretend to be less then what I am just so that you looked better? Isn’t that the definition of a bully?
(Not about my relationship, just an idea that was going around on a ‘submissive’ site I was part of. I can’t get behind that concept at all!)