I’ve been feeling like I am missing the exchange of power ritual we were using when you came home from work. I know we also discussed making it more of a ‘ritual’ so that it doesn’t just get done in passing and sort of forgot …. I know that we are waiting on the new day collars to come in, in order to start that part of the exchange over again but I was hoping you had given some thought as to what else we could add to the exchange to make it more meaningful still.
I had also mentioned to you a few days ago that I would like some more impact connection with you to help keep my mind focused and quiet. I’m not sure just how it would work out exactly, with noise being a potential issue, but in my mind I guess I pictured being over your knee (or some position of your choosing) and have you warm my bottom before you had me kneel and then put on my day collar.
I’m feeling like even just a handful of smacks would easily put me into the mind I want to be in and I think it may work for you as well. It wouldn’t take more then a couple minutes and it wouldn’t need to be very hard so no need to worry about when you did want an actual play session. More symbolic, not a going into subspace thing…..
I know crouching down is difficult for you at times so perhaps you could have me kneel on ‘high knees’ in order to accept my day collar.
Please let me know what you think Sir. I guess I just want to feel like yours all the time! 🙂 Love you Always